Yes , it's best if u both like similar things , books , movies , music etc . When the romance starts to tarnish a bit , u need something to talk about without arguing
Dating with Age Gaps
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When reading the books of Kings and Chronicles , it's interesting to work out just how young some of these Kings must have been where their own children were born , if I remember correctly , one of them was only 11 when he fathered his son , I'm guessing that the child's mother was older than the father but I suppose I could b wrong
I had a girlfriend who was significantly older than I. She misled me to believe that she was a good candidate for marriage at the time. That's when I did phase #2 detailed study on the subject of age gaps and marriage. I always wanted children. I wanted to pass along valuable skills, etc that the Lord shared with me, but not everything to strangers' children. The Lord showed me the importance of reproduction and the consideration that she was short over half a carton of eggs.
Other than that, marriage certainly was not a sin because she was older. At the time I consulted an OB Dr and learned about fertility and lack thereof.
The a gross sin and major evil were her lies to mislead me into wasting a lot of years of my prime on the whorish woman.
She pretended to be what she knew that I wanted instead of having integrity of frankness, so I could move forward with my life to start a family with a real decent woman.
For some reason many Christian parents, young adult children, divorcees and most pastors overlook integrity, virtue and other important Biblical topics for the red herrings of virtue signals, man's philosophies.
Colossians 2:8
@All Ya All,
It's apparent that a lot of mommas around the medical center of my state warn the same about mature Christians. You aren't saying this Suze, but every one of you women with young families need reminding of something your pastors may have left out.
Many of the local parents teach their daughters that rather than a stable mature Godly man, they should hook up with a wealthy medical Dr. or lawyer. Don't worry, there's no reason for the bad lawyer jokes. There's no truth in those.
If the lawyers are in the subjective age range of the wise council of elder singles, and have a 6 digit income, the rest will just fall into place, right? It's in the Bible!
Instead of nursing their man (any age) and children when they get sick, this city prefers to make $ nursing strangers and serving physicians. This is probably just a local trend, but it applies to the topic. I've had both in the family and don't disparage the decent exceptional ones. We have a lot of hospitals here.
There are some exceptions and virtuous believers, but I'm talking about the earned reputations of many. Virtue is not even on the list unless it's like "red flags" or virtue signals.
I've also done a few nursing home and hospital visits. Guess who fills most of those beds? Take a guess.
The minority are older and younger men .
Perhaps we middle aged men should advise the younger to forget marriage because they are going to likely get a weaker vessel, high maintenance and have needs at times that will require discomfort, inconvenience and perhaps husbandly nursing. When those weak creatures get pregnant, "chances r u will end up being their nurse , if u don't mind that go ahead ."
But something God provided, is the strength, weaknesses and interdependence that are supposed to be motivated by love. Nobody's an island.
I think that the women and men who are so selfish that they are not willing to nurse their husbands in time of need should do their future families a favor and NOT get married to an older OR a younger man. If they are not willing to commit for richer/ poorer, sickness/ health, better or worse, then they obviously are Not marriage quality ladies. Some of those younger guys I've taught aren't all that healthy. I wonder what their momma's fed them?
It doesn't matter if those college freshmen have a full carton of eggs and pretty as the prom queen. Her schools spent 8 hours/ day, 5 days per week for 12-14 years training her to be a the wife or husband they prove to be.
For answers, start with the divorce rate.
The spiritual maturity level sometimes never changes for either immature men or women.
It saddens me when a wife leaves her husband at the hospital with a broken body from an auto accident, job accident or health setback for another guy.
Perhaps if her husband had the quality of health and good looks of a youthful teenager or tall twenty something, he'd have something going for him? Huh?
She certainly can't be expected to be taught by the older ladies to stay committed, virtuous and close to God. Sometimes I see that and encourage them too.
They are honorable and valued by their family. Their children will praise them.
But for many, Age is the BIG Biblical mandate that I must've missed the last time I read the Bible. Perhaps you can help me find that?
There are times I've said something to the men or the shameful flirtatious women at the hospitals when young attractive men invited them on dates while I was trying to save their dying husbands' lives. God sent me at the right time to hear the conversations that were going on.
One case was an older husband who was diabetic and given a vancomycin resistant gift by the hospital care.
He was provided what the hospital antibiotics could not do.
He got saved and went to Heaven.
In spite of being athletic, healthy in my prime, I've been in situations where the Lord humbled me with complete weaknesses and a crippling injury. An on the job accident about kept me in bed. BTW, it was not age related.
The sorry excuse for my older fiancee, Melanie M. never visited, prayed or called to encourage me.
I was in too much pain and couldn't hardly sleep.
That's Nothing unique to me. Other ladies are also encouraged to find a younger fit one when theirs is down; shop around for a newer, healthier model. Kinda like a car.
Same goes for the ladies whose guys abandoned them when ready to give birth. Sure don't want to " end up being their nurse , if u don't mind that go ahead ."
I recently visited Kim O. who's boyfriend just abandoned her when her water broke. And contractions started. Nice time to have a man leave you, isn't it?
When I had the injury, I was building a business, a ministry and working a full-time job to provide what we would need so when we would marry, she would, at the appropriate time, stay at my home as a traditional wife and have her dream come true.
I had a serious job accident crippled me. Dad thought I was going to die. No worries ladies, the older woman would suffer the trouble you ladies warn your younger competition about. She would not nurse or so much as check on this younger man. Maybe she needed you ladies to set her up with a teenager. That would really be the virtuous Biblical thing to do.
The Dr insisted over and over that I submit to his orders and be admitted to the hospital. I talked to Dad and refused the Drs stern demands. I told him there's nothing the hospital has to offer that wasn't at Dad's home. If there is, he could prove that to me when I was able to come to appointments.
My Dad left his business for over a month to wait on me and provide all of my needs. It took me 2 excruciating hours to get out of bed, into a wheelchair and then the car to be driven to the Drs office for his expensive, worthless, painful tests and waste my money. This was the head Dr of the top rated orthopedic hospital in my state, Ruby Memorial Hospital.
He had no clue, but was paid cash out of pocket as I went to my appointments. The tech was a piece of work too.
Same went with the rheumatology.
My main Physician was waiting for me to come to the end of my rope before healing me. I'm sure there were more than one purpose.
God used that painful, long event to show me His true love expressed through my awesome Dad. I didn't realize how much my father loved me until then. My parents were divorced and I was turned, for no good reason, against my own Dad by the second husband. (There's a woman on this forum who did likewise, who badmouthed me to another lady like that. God reward her according to her deeds.)
Mom's second, younger husband, named Dick A. psychotic trash who murdered my little brother tried to kill me and Mom too, poisoned my mind, as a young child, against my Dad.
Those younger ladies are so tempted by those charming young snakes/ Devils. It seems like a few take after their grandmother Eve.
That venom wasn't washed from my brain until this chapter of my adult life when God turned that painful curse into a blessing.
The Lord used that opportunity for my Dad to care for me, yes "be my nurse" to prove to me how much a father can care for his grown, only begotten son.
Dad brought food, water and everything to my bed. I had zero help from any woman young or old.
Then the Lord healed me miraculously. He answered my fervent tearful prayer based on a Bible promise. I was so surprised that I could walk!!!
He even restored, at that day, my atrophied muscles to beyond their previous physical strength when I was working out daily!
There's times when both men and women need grace. We get sick, injured, have children, family members are slaughtered by worthless Dicks and medical workers. They need God's people to show grace in times of need. This goes especially for husbands and wives. If women don't think they should nurse a husband in need, they should certainly expect their children to abandon them in time of need too.
Think about it. What kind of example do parents show? What classes do schools teach on this subject as they are never even allowed to connect with the elderly and crippled? Hey, at least they are segregated into groups within 2 years. THAT'S what's important right? Age segregation is the virtue of the century according to this godly generation.
No wonder the older women are supposed to teach the younger to love their husbands and their children.
Titus 2:4
It's apparent that a lot of mommas around the medical center of my state warn the same about mature Christians. You aren't saying this Suze, but every one of you women with young families need reminding of something your pastors may have left out.
Many of the local parents teach their daughters that rather than a stable mature Godly man, they should hook up with a wealthy medical Dr. or lawyer. Don't worry, there's no reason for the bad lawyer jokes. There's no truth in those.
If the lawyers are in the subjective age range of the wise council of elder singles, and have a 6 digit income, the rest will just fall into place, right? It's in the Bible!
Instead of nursing their man (any age) and children when they get sick, this city prefers to make $ nursing strangers and serving physicians. This is probably just a local trend, but it applies to the topic. I've had both in the family and don't disparage the decent exceptional ones. We have a lot of hospitals here.
There are some exceptions and virtuous believers, but I'm talking about the earned reputations of many. Virtue is not even on the list unless it's like "red flags" or virtue signals.
I've also done a few nursing home and hospital visits. Guess who fills most of those beds? Take a guess.
The minority are older and younger men .
Perhaps we middle aged men should advise the younger to forget marriage because they are going to likely get a weaker vessel, high maintenance and have needs at times that will require discomfort, inconvenience and perhaps husbandly nursing. When those weak creatures get pregnant, "chances r u will end up being their nurse , if u don't mind that go ahead ."
But something God provided, is the strength, weaknesses and interdependence that are supposed to be motivated by love. Nobody's an island.
I think that the women and men who are so selfish that they are not willing to nurse their husbands in time of need should do their future families a favor and NOT get married to an older OR a younger man. If they are not willing to commit for richer/ poorer, sickness/ health, better or worse, then they obviously are Not marriage quality ladies. Some of those younger guys I've taught aren't all that healthy. I wonder what their momma's fed them?
It doesn't matter if those college freshmen have a full carton of eggs and pretty as the prom queen. Her schools spent 8 hours/ day, 5 days per week for 12-14 years training her to be a the wife or husband they prove to be.
For answers, start with the divorce rate.
The spiritual maturity level sometimes never changes for either immature men or women.
It saddens me when a wife leaves her husband at the hospital with a broken body from an auto accident, job accident or health setback for another guy.
Perhaps if her husband had the quality of health and good looks of a youthful teenager or tall twenty something, he'd have something going for him? Huh?
She certainly can't be expected to be taught by the older ladies to stay committed, virtuous and close to God. Sometimes I see that and encourage them too.
They are honorable and valued by their family. Their children will praise them.
But for many, Age is the BIG Biblical mandate that I must've missed the last time I read the Bible. Perhaps you can help me find that?
There are times I've said something to the men or the shameful flirtatious women at the hospitals when young attractive men invited them on dates while I was trying to save their dying husbands' lives. God sent me at the right time to hear the conversations that were going on.
One case was an older husband who was diabetic and given a vancomycin resistant gift by the hospital care.
He was provided what the hospital antibiotics could not do.
He got saved and went to Heaven.
In spite of being athletic, healthy in my prime, I've been in situations where the Lord humbled me with complete weaknesses and a crippling injury. An on the job accident about kept me in bed. BTW, it was not age related.
The sorry excuse for my older fiancee, Melanie M. never visited, prayed or called to encourage me.
I was in too much pain and couldn't hardly sleep.
That's Nothing unique to me. Other ladies are also encouraged to find a younger fit one when theirs is down; shop around for a newer, healthier model. Kinda like a car.
Same goes for the ladies whose guys abandoned them when ready to give birth. Sure don't want to " end up being their nurse , if u don't mind that go ahead ."
I recently visited Kim O. who's boyfriend just abandoned her when her water broke. And contractions started. Nice time to have a man leave you, isn't it?
When I had the injury, I was building a business, a ministry and working a full-time job to provide what we would need so when we would marry, she would, at the appropriate time, stay at my home as a traditional wife and have her dream come true.
I had a serious job accident crippled me. Dad thought I was going to die. No worries ladies, the older woman would suffer the trouble you ladies warn your younger competition about. She would not nurse or so much as check on this younger man. Maybe she needed you ladies to set her up with a teenager. That would really be the virtuous Biblical thing to do.
The Dr insisted over and over that I submit to his orders and be admitted to the hospital. I talked to Dad and refused the Drs stern demands. I told him there's nothing the hospital has to offer that wasn't at Dad's home. If there is, he could prove that to me when I was able to come to appointments.
My Dad left his business for over a month to wait on me and provide all of my needs. It took me 2 excruciating hours to get out of bed, into a wheelchair and then the car to be driven to the Drs office for his expensive, worthless, painful tests and waste my money. This was the head Dr of the top rated orthopedic hospital in my state, Ruby Memorial Hospital.
He had no clue, but was paid cash out of pocket as I went to my appointments. The tech was a piece of work too.
Same went with the rheumatology.
My main Physician was waiting for me to come to the end of my rope before healing me. I'm sure there were more than one purpose.
God used that painful, long event to show me His true love expressed through my awesome Dad. I didn't realize how much my father loved me until then. My parents were divorced and I was turned, for no good reason, against my own Dad by the second husband. (There's a woman on this forum who did likewise, who badmouthed me to another lady like that. God reward her according to her deeds.)
Mom's second, younger husband, named Dick A. psychotic trash who murdered my little brother tried to kill me and Mom too, poisoned my mind, as a young child, against my Dad.
Those younger ladies are so tempted by those charming young snakes/ Devils. It seems like a few take after their grandmother Eve.
That venom wasn't washed from my brain until this chapter of my adult life when God turned that painful curse into a blessing.
The Lord used that opportunity for my Dad to care for me, yes "be my nurse" to prove to me how much a father can care for his grown, only begotten son.
Dad brought food, water and everything to my bed. I had zero help from any woman young or old.
Then the Lord healed me miraculously. He answered my fervent tearful prayer based on a Bible promise. I was so surprised that I could walk!!!
He even restored, at that day, my atrophied muscles to beyond their previous physical strength when I was working out daily!
There's times when both men and women need grace. We get sick, injured, have children, family members are slaughtered by worthless Dicks and medical workers. They need God's people to show grace in times of need. This goes especially for husbands and wives. If women don't think they should nurse a husband in need, they should certainly expect their children to abandon them in time of need too.
Think about it. What kind of example do parents show? What classes do schools teach on this subject as they are never even allowed to connect with the elderly and crippled? Hey, at least they are segregated into groups within 2 years. THAT'S what's important right? Age segregation is the virtue of the century according to this godly generation.
No wonder the older women are supposed to teach the younger to love their husbands and their children.
Titus 2:4
@All Ya All,
It's apparent that a lot of mommas around the medical center of my state warn the same about mature Christians. You aren't saying this Suze, but every one of you women with young families need reminding of something your pastors may have left out.
Many of the local parents teach their daughters that rather than a stable mature Godly man, they should hook up with a wealthy medical Dr. or lawyer. Don't worry, there's no reason for the bad lawyer jokes. There's no truth in those.
If the lawyers are in the subjective age range of the wise council of elder singles, and have a 6 digit income, the rest will just fall into place, right? It's in the Bible!
Instead of nursing their man (any age) and children when they get sick, this city prefers to make $ nursing strangers and serving physicians. This is probably just a local trend, but it applies to the topic. I've had both in the family and don't disparage the decent exceptional ones. We have a lot of hospitals here.
There are some exceptions and virtuous believers, but I'm talking about the earned reputations of many. Virtue is not even on the list unless it's like "red flags" or virtue signals.
I've also done a few nursing home and hospital visits. Guess who fills most of those beds? Take a guess.
The minority are older and younger men .
Perhaps we middle aged men should advise the younger to forget marriage because they are going to likely get a weaker vessel, high maintenance and have needs at times that will require discomfort, inconvenience and perhaps husbandly nursing. When those weak creatures get pregnant, "chances r u will end up being their nurse , if u don't mind that go ahead ."
But something God provided, is the strength, weaknesses and interdependence that are supposed to be motivated by love. Nobody's an island.
I think that the women and men who are so selfish that they are not willing to nurse their husbands in time of need should do their future families a favor and NOT get married to an older OR a younger man. If they are not willing to commit for richer/ poorer, sickness/ health, better or worse, then they obviously are Not marriage quality ladies. Some of those younger guys I've taught aren't all that healthy. I wonder what their momma's fed them?
It doesn't matter if those college freshmen have a full carton of eggs and pretty as the prom queen. Her schools spent 8 hours/ day, 5 days per week for 12-14 years training her to be a the wife or husband they prove to be.
For answers, start with the divorce rate.
The spiritual maturity level sometimes never changes for either immature men or women.
It saddens me when a wife leaves her husband at the hospital with a broken body from an auto accident, job accident or health setback for another guy.
Perhaps if her husband had the quality of health and good looks of a youthful teenager or tall twenty something, he'd have something going for him? Huh?
She certainly can't be expected to be taught by the older ladies to stay committed, virtuous and close to God. Sometimes I see that and encourage them too.
They are honorable and valued by their family. Their children will praise them.
But for many, Age is the BIG Biblical mandate that I must've missed the last time I read the Bible. Perhaps you can help me find that?
There are times I've said something to the men or the shameful flirtatious women at the hospitals when young attractive men invited them on dates while I was trying to save their dying husbands' lives. God sent me at the right time to hear the conversations that were going on.
One case was an older husband who was diabetic and given a vancomycin resistant gift by the hospital care.
He was provided what the hospital antibiotics could not do.
He got saved and went to Heaven.
In spite of being athletic, healthy in my prime, I've been in situations where the Lord humbled me with complete weaknesses and a crippling injury. An on the job accident about kept me in bed. BTW, it was not age related.
The sorry excuse for my older fiancee, Melanie M. never visited, prayed or called to encourage me.
I was in too much pain and couldn't hardly sleep.
That's Nothing unique to me. Other ladies are also encouraged to find a younger fit one when theirs is down; shop around for a newer, healthier model. Kinda like a car.
Same goes for the ladies whose guys abandoned them when ready to give birth. Sure don't want to " end up being their nurse , if u don't mind that go ahead ."
I recently visited Kim O. who's boyfriend just abandoned her when her water broke. And contractions started. Nice time to have a man leave you, isn't it?
When I had the injury, I was building a business, a ministry and working a full-time job to provide what we would need so when we would marry, she would, at the appropriate time, stay at my home as a traditional wife and have her dream come true.
I had a serious job accident crippled me. Dad thought I was going to die. No worries ladies, the older woman would suffer the trouble you ladies warn your younger competition about. She would not nurse or so much as check on this younger man. Maybe she needed you ladies to set her up with a teenager. That would really be the virtuous Biblical thing to do.
The Dr insisted over and over that I submit to his orders and be admitted to the hospital. I talked to Dad and refused the Drs stern demands. I told him there's nothing the hospital has to offer that wasn't at Dad's home. If there is, he could prove that to me when I was able to come to appointments.
My Dad left his business for over a month to wait on me and provide all of my needs. It took me 2 excruciating hours to get out of bed, into a wheelchair and then the car to be driven to the Drs office for his expensive, worthless, painful tests and waste my money. This was the head Dr of the top rated orthopedic hospital in my state, Ruby Memorial Hospital.
He had no clue, but was paid cash out of pocket as I went to my appointments. The tech was a piece of work too.
Same went with the rheumatology.
My main Physician was waiting for me to come to the end of my rope before healing me. I'm sure there were more than one purpose.
God used that painful, long event to show me His true love expressed through my awesome Dad. I didn't realize how much my father loved me until then. My parents were divorced and I was turned, for no good reason, against my own Dad by the second husband. (There's a woman on this forum who did likewise, who badmouthed me to another lady like that. God reward her according to her deeds.)
Mom's second, younger husband, named Dick A. psychotic trash who murdered my little brother tried to kill me and Mom too, poisoned my mind, as a young child, against my Dad.
Those younger ladies are so tempted by those charming young snakes/ Devils. It seems like a few take after their grandmother Eve.
That venom wasn't washed from my brain until this chapter of my adult life when God turned that painful curse into a blessing.
The Lord used that opportunity for my Dad to care for me, yes "be my nurse" to prove to me how much a father can care for his grown, only begotten son.
Dad brought food, water and everything to my bed. I had zero help from any woman young or old.
Then the Lord healed me miraculously. He answered my fervent tearful prayer based on a Bible promise. I was so surprised that I could walk!!!
He even restored, at that day, my atrophied muscles to beyond their previous physical strength when I was working out daily!
There's times when both men and women need grace. We get sick, injured, have children, family members are slaughtered by worthless Dicks and medical workers. They need God's people to show grace in times of need. This goes especially for husbands and wives. If women don't think they should nurse a husband in need, they should certainly expect their children to abandon them in time of need too.
Think about it. What kind of example do parents show? What classes do schools teach on this subject as they are never even allowed to connect with the elderly and crippled? Hey, at least they are segregated into groups within 2 years. THAT'S what's important right? Age segregation is the virtue of the century according to this godly generation.
No wonder the older women are supposed to teach the younger to love their husbands and their children.
Titus 2:4
When my father got sick and had to stay in the hospital, my Mom went to stay with him every day from when visiting hours started in the morning to when it ended at night and tended to him.
So it was shocking that your girlfriend didn't visit you or tend to you at all while you were sick. What were her excuses??? And how much older than you was she???
It's nice though to see how much your Dad loved you in your time of need!
It's great to see that your Dad was there for you!
I don't date but if I was, I wouldn't want to date a guy with a significant age gap from my own. I would estimate maybe 6 years plus or minus at the most. I'm thinking generationally men within this age-range would have the same experiences as I have had so we would understand each other better.
I am interested in friendships. When we are in friendships in the Lord, good things can happen.I thought you were not interested in dating?
Is 27 years too much???
I apologize if I'm misunderstanding, but I just wanted to clarify.
Do you mean that there is a 27-year difference between you and your wife?
I don't mean this as a criticism at all, I just want to understand your comment.
I don't date but if I was, I wouldn't want to date a guy with a significant age gap from my own. I would estimate maybe 6 years plus or minus at the most. I'm thinking generationally men within this age-range would have the same experiences as I have had so we would understand each other better.
I can understand that. I never wanted a woman who was not fit and on the same page about lifestyle, so my children would be fed healthy meals, supplements, and stay away from pediatricians. I'm the king of my castle, the Dr of my own family, not some stranger who masquerades as a "health care professional" injecting poisons into the innocents.
I wanted someone that I could share the most beautiful areas in America, which are accessable only by foot. Young or old, that's not the average.
The more you rant about the evils of doctors, and how your hypothetical wife and children will have to toe your line... The easier it is to picture you as a fledgling cult leader.
Not the kind who made his followers drink the koolaid. But definitely like the one who had his wife keep kids in a school bus.
Is 27 years too much???
In my personal opinion, no. Like I had said in my post in here, I think that it's more about the maturity level of both individuals in the relationship, as well as common ground.
I've actually went beyond 27 years and it never posed a problem for me. Everyone is different and it's no one else's business who we choose to be with (as long as you both are of legal age, of course lol).
Thank you for responding with a quote Lynx, or I would not have read your latest insult. Nobody counts them, but those insults must be adding up by now.
There are PLENTY of Drs who led wives and children drink that Jim Jones poisoned Kool Aid.
Many of them suffer from cancers, serious brain damage and many other malicious iatrogenic conditions.
More than one medical doctor has told me that I should not take my future children to a pediatrician. Nobody knows it all, but I am more than qualified to do what they report to address, but with better results.
A famous pediatrician and I have shared many holidays, who was president of the largest and best known children's hospital within driving distance.
I shared evidence with him about various childhood vaccines. He was open minded enough to verify my information, share it with his hospital board and take the LEADERSHIP role of dropping those required vaccines from the schedule. It was documented in medical literature, reported and announced on national media.
There are plenty of Bible references I can choose to cite as to why I refuse to marry any woman who will not follow my leadership. Her opinions would be valued and considered, however, the buck stops with me. I make the hard choices and they will stand. Any woman is dropped from consideration as a candidate to live in a comfortable home of which she would be a princess if she cannot meet certain Biblical requirements.
In America a man is the literal king of his home, his castle. In my relatively free state, there is in law a "Castle Doctrine." It states that an intruder who breaks in threatening harm may have his life ended without fear of repercussions from external legal powers. This takes into account that a man is the king of his domicile, has Dominion.
I can see how such a Christian concept upon which the Castle Doctrine and Biblical family leadership structure sounds cultic you.
No insult, just observation. If I had wanted to insult you I would have said... But I won't say that.
I will say that you define your life by what you hate. I don't think you would know who you are if you did not have something to hate and be angry about. If you did not have doctors to hate, you would find some other group of people to hate.
It is sad, but something I have observed a lot in humans. Like, a LOT! Most people who need somebody to hate choose politicians because that's an easy target. Some focus on their exes. But some people just can't get by without having someone or some group to hate.
Age gap…hmm…anyone who can take me out on a seafood restaurant, hold the door open for me, pull out the chair, pick up the bill and, lastly, fully accept that I’m in fact no more than 29.
Oooooh, so close! I have all of these covered except one.Age gap…hmm…anyone who can take me out on a seafood restaurant, hold the door open for me, pull out the chair, pick up the bill and, lastly, fully accept that I’m in fact no more than 29.
Is 27 years too much???
I personally do think that is way too much. That's a 20 year old with a 47 year old. I understand it works for some people, but it would make me feel icky.
I think that if someone is old enough to be the other person's parent (16 year age difference or more) then it's too much.
Don't squat on my shoe and call it chocolate. If you want to gas light someone, your gonna have to pick someone really stupid.
If a man has the integrity of love, he has to hate the evil.
Those who don't are hypocrites.
9Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.
Romans 12
Dissimulation is referring to those who have no hatred for evil, who have fake love.
I can't think of anyone who hasn't tried really hard to be worthy of God's wrath than the respiratory therapists, nurses, Drs and globalist who take money to kill the helpless. They all played their parts in murdering my family. I understand that you couldn't give a damn about my family.
I never asked you to.
However, I'm passionately pro-life. That's why I love God with all my heart and hate the devils.
I loved my family with all of my heart and hate their torturers and murderers.
Perhaps some will beware of Satan's servants and seek the Lord for help in times of need.
I devoted my life to helping my neighbors, strangers and don't appreciate seeing them needlessly suffer.
Did you know that the wrath of God is upon those who show kindness to the wicked and His enemies?
2And Jehu the son of Hanani the seer went out to meet him, and said to king Jehoshaphat, Shouldest thou help the ungodly, and love them that hate the LORD? therefore is wrath upon thee from before the LORD.
2 Chronicles 19
Please permit me to say
One should hate the Evil that people do and shun it. But love those doing the Evil, have pity and mercy on them. Pray for the salvation of their souls. That is why we should take the pains to tell them of the Immense love of our Christ for evil doers. If God hates that we interact with the ungodly. He will start with the Christ. But no He doesn't.
In that, as Christians, we should love every single soul because God loves them.
So His wrath is BEING kindled Romans 1 says against some group of people including the ungodly. For now He is being patient hoping people will come to the saving knowledge of His Son the Christ. However the day of wrath is coming and those who refused to repent will be consumed by His wrath.
The best part about having a category of people it's ok to hate is that you can usually justify adding more people to it because you don't like them. If you're really good you can put the whole world in that category and then you don't have to worry about those pesky commands to love your enemies and do good to those who hate you.
Yes, I see. You have pronounced yourself judge and jury. A whole group of people is despicable and must be hated.
Good thing murder is still illegal in this country. You can't also be the executioner.
Happy hating.