I tell them God made a way through Christ to be reconciled to Himself.
Do you pray for unsaved people?
Pretty vague.
Anyway the idea of regeneration preceding belief
- based on the unproven idea that people are created by god (not the God of Scripture) to be unable to respond to the Truth and Power of the Gospel message
- so that this god then bestows regeneration/particular unique enabling on certain selected people in an random manner (since we do not know why he loves some, saves some and not others).
is clearly wrong and has yet to be proven via scripture.