An Annoying Thread. Scrutinizing my Character?

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Lynx said:
Oh... No, that wasn't serious. "wots a date?" was a humorous way of saying I have no experience at all with relationships.

It's like on a TV show when someone is talking about his retirement plan and an old, poor man who is going to have to work until he dies says "wots retirement?" It is understood that the man knows very well what retirement is, for most people, but he either has not seen it yet or maybe will never see it.
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Oh I see, ok
Merci!
 
i'm guilty of just 1 wrong move. truly. in my 1st relationship, my girlfriend decided to go to Florida with her girlfriend & without me. i became angry but not in front of her. just before she left & after she left, i was angry. she was gone for 2 weeks. so i cheated on her. but me, being an honest man, i told her when she came back. she knew i wasn't happy about her leaving. i could tell she wasn't to upset because of my honesty. in no time, we made amends.
 
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Edith said:
Time and again people talk about attitudes, manners they don't like. They scrutinize the character personality fine faults and sometime call these attitude deal breakers. Because of these they avoid certain people and would not get in to relationships or be seen with some.

While I think of deal breakers and relationship failures that I easily blame my ex partner for, I can't help but wonder if some how somewhere I caused it (no hurts or left over feelings)
So I want to put up this annoying thread where we talk about ourselves (taking the spec from our eyes) like good Christian men and women we are. so
- what are some attitudes we may have had that spoilt our past relationships?
- what did we learn about ourselves during our past relationships that we would not repeat in another relationship?
- what are some spoilt attitudes you know you have but have difficulties letting go even when You know this may be someone's deal breaker?

As for me I am petty and always try fixing things and people. I have forgotten the word @seoulsearch used for this but it does spoil relationships. sometimes it needs no fixing, just some quiet time will do. I learned this the hard way. However I may stop fixing at all cost but stop being petty is difficult because I can only be petty with those I love, if I have no business with you, I don't stress to speak or make known my opinion except necessary.

Now your turn tell us something juicy.
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btw, this is a very important thread for Christians to be honest & share faults for corrections. nice going.
 
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Karlon said:
i'm guilty of just 1 wrong move. truly. in my 1st relationship, my girlfriend decided to go to Florida with her girlfriend & without me. i became angry but not in front of her. just before she left & after she left, i was angry. she was gone for 2 weeks. so i cheated on her. but me, being an honest man, i told her when she came back. she knew i wasn't happy about her leaving. i could tell she wasn't to upset because of my honesty. in no time, we made amends.
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Oh my dear Karlon I would be so heart broken. Yet being honest is a huge thing in such cases. it's better to know what you are dealing with than to be clueless.
 
Edith said:
Oh my dear Karlon I would be so heart broken. Yet being honest is a huge thing in such cases. it's better to know what you are dealing with than to be clueless.
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she could have cheated on min florida! however, at that age, i was a young dummy, sort of speak, full of energy. i thought it to be wrong that she didn't want me going since i was her boyfriend.
 
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