edited #619
Your assertion that A equals B, the marriage structure equals the church structure. However, that Christ is head of the man, and the man is head of the woman, his body, is not equative with Christ being head of the church, His body. The Church already has a Head, and pastors' have no marital rights or privileges with Christ's body. This is equating the man with Christ, and a man should be as Christ in caring over his woman, but the Church is not the pastor's woman. That is equating males, exclusively, with Christ, but He has no equal. Although the Pope or Ayatollah might argue that He does.