You act like we can only have one or the other, but in reality
you can have BOTH multifaceted love, the more superior gifts of prophecy/knowledge AND speak in tongues.
The Bible is clear that the perfect hasn't come yet - it will when Jesus returns, NOT when the Bible was canonized. So this gift is still in operation!
I just think that even though it is one of the lesser gifts that there has to be something more to it seeing people react so unnaturally hostile to it. There is power in praying by the Holy Spirit to God that only He understands.....
Romans 8:26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.
I know of many accounts of speaking in tongues helping people in prayer - sometimes they don't know what to pray for or about and end up praying in tongues to God. Then they see positive things happen that they hadn't thought to pray for! So I think
speaking in tongues is the Holy Spirit helping us to pray for things we didn't know we or the church needed.
So for anyone interested in speaking in tongues, it is still in operation. You can have this gift along with the more superior gifts. You can have BOTH!