Moreover, the text itself speaks of a far deeper, greater love than that spoken of in
Mat 5:45, since God "so loved the world that he GAVE..." He GAVE his only begotten Son. In other words, God
offered up his Son...God
sacrificed his Son for the benefit of the world. Therefore, the love that is in view in this passage, at bare minimum, is
sacrificial in nature! God offered up His own Son whom Loves INFINITELY -- who He treasures above all else! But there is no such sacrificial giving in a beneficent type of love. God doesn't sacrifice anything by making his sun to shine and his rain to fall on both the good and the evil inhabitants of this world. I would suggest that the kind of "agape" love spoken of here in
Jn 3:16 is the kind of love that the Psalmist (himself in a covenant relationship with God) treasured more than life itself (
Ps 63:3). And that kind of love is
covenantal in nature! It is this kind of love that accounts for God
knowing his elect personally, intimately and in a filial sense (
Rom 8:29-30;
11:2, etc.). Conversely, the absence of this covenantal love explains what Jesus meant in
Mat 7:23 when He said, "I never knew you, depart from Me you evildoers." What Jesus is really saying is that He never entered into a covenant [of love] relationship with those people, (cf.
Deut 7:9,
12; 1Ki 23;
2Chron 6:14;
Neh 1:5;
9:32;
Dan 9:4) ! Therefore, the love that is spoken of in
Jn 3:16 can only apply to the elect of the Gentile nations of the world. Can God love covenantantly those He never knew? Yet, what we learn from scripture is that the vast majority of the world is perishing precisely because God has not brought those sinners into a covenant of love relationship with Himself, which accounts for why He never knew them!