I seriously don't think our Lord is offended by such language and thinking. Some of the fellowship language ends up in translation speaking of being His partners.
NKJ Philemon 1:10 I appeal to you for
my son Onesimus,
whom I have begotten while in my chains,
NKJ Galatians 4:19
My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ is formed in you,
NKJ 1 John 2:1
My little children, these things I write to you, so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.
NKJ 1 Corinthians 4:14-17 I do not write these things to shame you, but
as my beloved children I warn you. 15 For though you might have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet you do not have many fathers; for in Christ Jesus
I have begotten you through the gospel. 16 Therefore I urge you, imitate me. 17 For this reason I have sent Timothy to you,
who is my beloved and faithful son in the Lord, who will remind you of my ways in Christ, as I teach everywhere in every church.
Also, since
@Rufus is for some consistently odd reason countering you with 1Cor9:22-23 which he's explaining away as hyperbole, we can just add to it with:
NK Rom11:13-14 For I speak to you Gentiles; inasmuch as I am an apostle to the Gentiles,
I magnify my ministry, 14 if by any means
I may provoke to jealousy those who are my flesh
and save some of them.
And then more hyperbole from Christ's Apostle who so personalized his ministry for our Lord:
16 in the day when God will judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ, according to
my gospel. (Rom. 2:16 NKJ)
25 Now to Him who is able to establish you according to
my gospel and the preaching of Jesus Christ, according to the revelation of the mystery kept secret since the world began (Rom. 16:25 NKJ)
8 Remember that Jesus Christ, of the seed of David, was raised from the dead according to
my gospel, (2 Tim. 2:8 NKJ)
Imagine the arrogance of a man who understands God so well and his by grace ministry in Christ in Spirit living under grace that he personalizes his living, mutually abiding relationship and work together with God to such a degree. It rather seems to me that we can take all of the instruction, allow Him to make it our own, and know what to say and when in the context of a discussion.