Your handicap is that you have wedded yourself to a concept that is not mentioned in the bible:
monergism. This means that every word or phrase in scripture you interpret through that fictitious lens.
Synergism, however, does appear more than once once in the Bible, literally,
16:20 ἐκεῖνοι δὲ ἐξελθόντες ἐκήρυξαν πανταχοῦ τοῦ κυρίου
συνεργοῦντος καὶ τὸν λόγον βεβαιοῦντος διὰ τῶν ἐπακολουθούντων σημείων Ἀμήν
Mar 16:20 And they went forth, and preached every where, the Lord
working with them, and confirming the word with signs following. Amen.
2Co 5:21 For he hath made him
to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
2Co 6:1 We then,
as workers together with him (Συνεργοῦντες ), beseech
you also that ye receive not the grace of God in vain.
συνεργέω, συνεργῷ; imperfect 3 person singular συνήργει; (συνεργός, which see); from Euripides, Xenophon, Demosthenes down; Vulg.cooperor ((in
2 Corinthians 6:1adjuco)); to work together, help in work, be a partner in labor:
It is not "EITHER God does something OR we do it".
Because of your bewitchment into the priesthood of
monergism, you seem blinded to the way God
works together with us and
we work together with Him to get things done, including salvation.
Of course. The Scripture is predicated upon a FREE WILL relationship between God and men.
[Mat 21:28 KJV]
But what think ye? A [certain] man had two sons; and he came to the first, and said, Son, go work to day in my vineyard.
[Mat 21:29 KJV]
He answered and said, I will not: but afterward he repented, and went.
[Mat 21:30 KJV]
And he came to the second, and said likewise. And he answered and said, I [go], sir: and went not.
[Mat 21:31 KJV]
Whether of them twain did the will of [his] father? They say unto him, The first. Jesus saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That the publicans and the harlots go into the kingdom of God before you.
[Mat 21:32 KJV]
For John came unto you in the way of righteousness, and ye believed him not: but the publicans and the harlots believed him: and ye, when ye had seen [it], repented not afterward, that ye might believe him.
[Mat 21:33 KJV]
Hear another parable: There was a certain householder, which planted a vineyard, and hedged it round about, and digged a winepress in it, and built a tower, and let it out to husbandmen, and went into a far country:
[Mat 21:34 KJV]
And when the time of the fruit drew near, he sent his servants to the husbandmen, that they might receive the fruits of it.
[Mat 21:35 KJV]
And the husbandmen took his servants, and beat one, and killed another, and stoned another.
[Mat 21:36 KJV]
Again, he sent other servants more than the first: and they did unto them likewise.
[Mat 21:37 KJV]
But last of all he sent unto them his son, saying, They will reverence my son.
[Mat 21:38 KJV]
But when the husbandmen saw the son, they said among themselves, This is the heir; come, let us kill him, and let us seize on his inheritance.
[Mat 21:39 KJV]
And they caught him, and cast [him] out of the vineyard, and slew [him].
[Mat 21:40 KJV]
When the lord therefore of the vineyard cometh, what will he do unto those husbandmen?
[Mat 21:41 KJV]
They say unto him, He will miserably destroy those wicked men, and will let out [his] vineyard unto other husbandmen, which shall render him the fruits in their seasons.
[Mat 21:42 KJV]
Jesus saith unto them, Did ye never read in the scriptures, The stone which the builders rejected, the same is become the head of the corner: this is the Lord's doing, and it is marvellous in our eyes?
[Mat 21:43 KJV]
Therefore say I unto you, The kingdom of God shall be taken from you, and given to a nation bringing forth the fruits thereof.
[Mat 21:44 KJV]
And whosoever shall fall on this stone shall be broken: but on whomsoever it shall fall, it will grind him to powder.