I get it, so what's the answer or solution?
What I explained earlier....
You need to be more popular than any politician. Better thought of than a preacher....and really really liked by everyone.
You need to be a massive part of your community. Someone everyone knows and likes. However you can make that happen you need to make that happen.
So much so that people are literally creating excuses to come talk to you and seek your advice or approval on subjects.
There's a huge amount of group dynamics and social dynamics that goes into this sort of thing. There was a guy I knew that had a pizza shop. Every time I came by to bring him supplies he made sure I got a slice of pizza at least to eat. No big expense on his part....
But to me, and I was not alone, if I had need of italian food I was in his door with a group of friends talking up his food as the best in town. Because I considered him a friend. And it wasn't just the pizza he gave me....it was the smile and kind words he always had when seeing me.
A lot of people find kind feelings when you ask for help with something they take a lot of pride in doing. Like asking a carpenter for assistance with fine cabinetry work you are doing. That carpenter is going to look at you as a friend because he believes that you understand him on a personal level that few other can or ever will.
Sure, you are selling insurance....and you make commissions. But people are tired of being sold. What they want is a friend who will help them navigate the community they live in.
There's salesmen and there are friends you buy things from....the salesman is always getting another set of products to sell. Friends are just friends who you never mind helping.