I've never fit in. I fit in with the critters, but that's just because they want food. The masked bandits.
I've had my fair share of miserable times though. So, us that don't fit in can be miserable too. Thinking about it, I would definitely be more miserable if I went to clubs. The Chieftess has better things to do.
Btw, in keeping with the topic of this thread, here is a pic of our Space Cowgirl Stella Atom in Tulsa...
Zap!
View attachment 269974