Then this question remains in each person
How do you love me God?
God gives you the answer.
The greatest of all commands is LOVE (1 Cor 13:4-7) To love the Father of the Son Jesus above all. The Father and the Son are One, having the same mind, same will, Loving us all as said in 1 John 2 died for us all, (Is risen now) Son is the propitiation for us all, to take away sin for us to be able to live the new life. If one or anyone is busy with the first birth life, the trying to do it to get it done, even if beleive it is done, is not believing it is done or is it?. then one does not experience the new life freed from having to do it, to doing it by trust to God in risen Son for them are they, I saw this conundrum went on in me, when got put under the have to do's or else attitudes of the flesh nature first birth, it killed me, stressed me out badly.
Then, true love goes out, went out to all. As many a times it seems not fair, what one, anyone gets or not. Been in many a troubles here on earth. I saw to not deny God no matter what troubles happened to me or not.
That is what I see to love God the Father of the risen Son above it all, including me, myself
For me it all falls into place from trusting God, the Father of the risen Son Jesus for me, thanks, trusting to have helped in your walk
Love is not always viewed as Love. When one does not help another person and when it seems to help acting as if is love, might not be Proverbs 23:1-7
Ask Father in risen Son for the discernment, thanks