You fail to see what is needed....
Turn to 1 Corinthians 3:11-15.
Now, look. There will be destruction for a believer. But? (read carefully)...
He will not lose his salvation.
But rather, his works will be burned up by fire, thus rendering his chances for rewards will be DESTROYED! = Destruction!
For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid,
which is Jesus Christ. If anyone builds on this foundation using gold,
silver, precious stones, wood, hay or straw, their work will be shown
for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light.
It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work.
If what has been built survives, the builder will receive a reward.
If it is burned up, the builder will suffer loss but yet will be saved—
even though only as one escaping through the flames. 1 Cor 3:11-15
You can be a total loser in trying to live for Christ.
You can do all kinds of works in hoping to show the Lord how much you are willing to suffer...
But, if what you do is not according to sound doctrine? (according to gold, silver, and precious stones)
Your "wonderful" works will be utterly burned up...
Thus, seeing your desire to please the Lord destroyed... DESTRUCTION!
But, as far as your soul? Even being a total loser in assuming wrongly to do God's will?
It says?
You will remain "saved."
If it is burned up, the builder will suffer loss but yet will be saved—
even though only as one escaping through the flames.
Stick with what the Word says in other places, too, please.
For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me.
And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all those he has given me,
but raise them up at the last day. For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son
and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day.” John 6:38-40
God is not a man that He should become petty and vindictive when some believer refuses to do His will.
Evil that will not change must be utterly destroyed.
grace and peace ............