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I didn't say you said the world was going to end. I said this thread brought to mind the incident I had... with the goof ball who did tell me that lol.




This is good to hear, 'cause people these days break up over the silliest reasons. I know a man whose ex-gf broke up with him due to the way he ate his pancakes. I thought this was just really silly until I had my own pancake experience. I made a bunch of pancakes for the guy (who I was in a relationship with at the time) to have while I was gone. I was going to be gone for a couple of months. I was later accused of making too many pancakes. What?! I thought men liked when us gals made them homemade things. Freeze them! Give them to the neighbor. Give them to the Fuzz Butts.
I tell ya', pancakes are going to be the end of this world :LOL:
Anyway, pardon me, Imma get outta here before I get further off topic. Maybe go make some pancakes...
Lol you didn't I was just emphasising and clarifying myself to you and the others

No though I have my faults I am not someone that takes relationships as trivial affairs. I tend to commit myself fully and whilst I believe in the Biblical model of patriarchy I do not see women as a non person though I do believe that woman is to submit to her man and I do not believe in the men and woman are equal story in the sense that a man is a man and a women is a woman and woman is not supposed to be a man and lead...

Lol that is a new one making too much food. Lol totally unbelievable... I can't believe that people in general are so flippant about relationships. However seeing the state of things in the west in particular I am not surprised... We have fallen far from where we were once...

The good new is that after the fire has done it's work there will be blessing and prosperity and a rebuilding of what has been lost..

Lol pancakes ending the world lol I wish... By the way I happen to like pancakes (is it pancakes or flapjacks you are referring to lol pancakes are the big thinner ones correct?

Enjoy your potential pancakes it is moving close to 10 pm my side of the world. :)
 

Lynx

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I wish I could tell you that what I know was just a figment of my imagination however I am dead serious in the fact we are already in the early stages of WW3 and have been so since April / May 2024...
Boy, if I had a nickel for every time I've seen somebody predict the end of the world...

You talk a lot about what we don't understand. What you don't understand is, we have seen just so many people roll through here, week in and week out, with dire predictions about when and how the world will end. I've only been here 10 years but I can't count how many doomsdayers we have seen in those scant years.

Funny thing... They all talk about what they know about the end of the world. They all claim insider knowledge. They all ridicule us for what we don't know. But they all disagree with each other.

So go ahead and claim you know something we don't know. We've heard it all before.
 

CarriePie

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Lol you didn't I was just emphasising and clarifying myself to you and the others

No though I have my faults I am not someone that takes relationships as trivial affairs. I tend to commit myself fully and whilst I believe in the Biblical model of patriarchy I do not see women as a non person though I do believe that woman is to submit to her man and I do not believe in the men and woman are equal story in the sense that a man is a man and a women is a woman and woman is not supposed to be a man and lead...

Lol that is a new one making too much food. Lol totally unbelievable... I can't believe that people in general are so flippant about relationships. However seeing the state of things in the west in particular I am not surprised... We have fallen far from where we were once...

The good new is that after the fire has done it's work there will be blessing and prosperity and a rebuilding of what has been lost..

Lol pancakes ending the world lol I wish... By the way I happen to like pancakes (is it pancakes or flapjacks you are referring to lol pancakes are the big thinner ones correct?

Enjoy your potential pancakes it is moving close to 10 pm my side of the world. :)

I like to call them flapjacks, but everyone else around here calls them pancakes. Pancakes are smashing! I use buttermilk. Mine aren't thin, but not too thick either. They're very tasty. And that's what I was told, but I guess the "you made too many pancakes" thing was a good excuse to move me along lol.

Good night and all of smashingness to you :)
 
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Boy, if I had a nickel for every time I've seen somebody predict the end of the world...

You talk a lot about what we don't understand. What you don't understand is, we have seen just so many people roll through here, week in and week out, with dire predictions about when and how the world will end. I've only been here 10 years but I can't count how many doomsdayers we have seen in those scant years.

Funny thing... They all talk about what they know about the end of the world. They all claim insider knowledge. They all ridicule us for what we don't know. But they all disagree with each other.

So go ahead and claim you know something we don't know. We've heard it all before.
I wouldn't say it is insider knowledge it is freely accessible to everyone but I doubt many would believe it. It would require a much deeper look at things in general...

I can't deny you have heard it before but just know I am not trying to especially convince you or others that is not my task. You live how you want and I will do what I must.
 
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I like to call them flapjacks, but everyone else around here calls them pancakes. Pancakes are smashing! I use buttermilk. Mine aren't thin, but not too thick either. They're very tasty. And that's what I was told, but I guess the "you made too many pancakes" thing was a good excuse to move me along lol.

Good night and all of smashingness to you :)
Well I grew up with flapjacks they are normally smaller and thicker than pancakes (as least the ones in my childhood were) and it had butter on it and either jam (apricot or strawberry or golden syrup)

Yes well as said I can't believe that was used but then I guess any excuse could be.

Still awake but thanks for the sentiments.
 
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I like to call them flapjacks, but everyone else around here calls them pancakes. Pancakes are smashing! I use buttermilk. Mine aren't thin, but not too thick either. They're very tasty. And that's what I was told, but I guess the "you made too many pancakes" thing was a good excuse to move me along lol.

Good night and all of smashingness to you :)
Thanks... I reciprocate the same sentiments back towards you.
 

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No I am saying that I want to find, have a relationship with and marry a woman who knows what is coming and that the two of us would work together to do the best we can and enjoy what we can in spite of things. However that person would need to be at least willing to test things for herself because I do not think there is much time until the real "fire works" begin.

Just to clarify I am not looking for signs lol I am seeing events unfold and I understand that it will be an enigma to most if not all but I have borne witness since 2020 to things unfolding.. It is something I cannot deny for it has been a part of my life since then.

I am sure that you can understand the importance of her willingness after all... Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
What are your chances of finding a potential 'Christian' wife who will be 'agreed' towards this concept of yours; 'Notice it is the wicked who are uprooted "raptured" not the righteous'? Since you dreamed this up and will convince no one of this, who's gonna be waiting in line to hear more 'insights' of yours. Plus little or no income...uh, what are you offering again?
 
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What are your chances of finding a potential 'Christian' wife who will be 'agreed' towards this concept of yours; 'Notice it is the wicked who are uprooted "raptured" not the righteous'? Since you dreamed this up and will convince no one of this, who's gonna be waiting in line to hear more 'insights' of yours. Plus little or no income...uh, what are you offering again?
Lol it is not me who dreamed that up lol about the "rapture" however when one looks throughout scripture we can see that His people are never removed from calamity they have to go through it, so if it is not His people who are removed then logically it can only be the wicked... However you believe what you want. I am not here to convince you.

I never claimed I had anything to offer other than myself lol and my finances are a reality of my situation. Something that is on my plate so to speak. Remember I not saying I will find this person I stated that I would like to but... In other words it is my inner desire but my inner desire has to succumb to necessity.

Honestly if I find someone great if I don't find someone then that's how it is... There are much bigger things now and so I must do what I must do. If I survive this coming refining period then afterwards would be the time to seek out such a person and if I don't survive this refining period well then lol it doesn't matter anymore does it lol.
 

TabinRivCA

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Lol it is not me who dreamed that up lol about the "rapture" however when one looks throughout scripture we can see that His people are never removed from calamity they have to go through it, so if it is not His people who are removed then logically it can only be the wicked... However you believe what you want. I am not here to convince you.

I never claimed I had anything to offer other than myself lol and my finances are a reality of my situation. Something that is on my plate so to speak. Remember I not saying I will find this person I stated that I would like to but... In other words it is my inner desire but my inner desire has to succumb to necessity.

Honestly if I find someone great if I don't find someone then that's how it is... There are much bigger things now and so I must do what I must do. If I survive this coming refining period then afterwards would be the time to seek out such a person and if I don't survive this refining period well then lol it doesn't matter anymore does it lol.
His people are always removed from calamity, unless they are being disobedient. How about Sodom and Gomorrah, Noah and the Arc, Moses and the Red Sea and the many times God intervened in wars against His people. A modern-day example, during the Yom Kippur War, Israel would have been wiped out but Golda Meir called President Nixon and asked for help saying they would be destroyed if they didn't get backup. He said he knew then why he was President and said YES and sent ample artillery to Israel to win the war and survive.

'You obeyed my message and endured. So, I will protect you from the time of testing everyone in all the world must go through' Rev 3:10.
 
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He has called me to bare witness and he gave a warning in April 2021 to stock up because a world wide famine is coming and will be on the same scale as what happened in Russia / Ukraine under the communists... were between 2-3 percent of the population was massacred - The Holodomor (know of it) well what happened to those countries will happen to the entire world and here is the scariest part it is all by design of the same communists that did it then.

I understand it is disjointed for you and others because you are trying to potentially fathom what I am saying...

As said I have done all I can... due to circumstances I am also limited in how much I can store as well. I have tired and am always trying to form group with my fellow kin here in South Africa first and then those overseas... I wasn't implying that you were saying anything here I was simply stating that so you could understand the seriousness of my mindset in this.

I don't claim to have all the answers for I am but a witness and it is all playing out but I do, do what I can and right now I am looking for online work (I have been looking for over a year now lol)

The practicality is do what you can with what you can each person's circumstances are different. Lol

Lol apocalypse lady lol I must be quite the curiosity to you and others this guy from South Africa saying all this stuff... I don't claim that this a personal direct revelation to me though I have had the confirmation to me personally if that makes sense...

After all I am an ordinary guy nothing inherently special about me just that I was one of the few (in the broader scope of Christians) that received grace to know and that by knowing I had to make changes to my life in a sense.
I don't find what you are saying particularly hard to fathom. I mean, sure, I've heard rumors of wars and economic collapse since I was a kid. Some have come to pass and some haven't. I'm always low-key prepared for difficult times in a physical sense, which isn't as important as being prepared in a spiritual sense. So if a guy is going to get my attention, he will be the one pointing the way to the oil provider, not the one running through the streets yelling that the groom will be back sometime ;).

I wish you well, welcome to the forums, and please try to rest in His grace a bit, because you're worth more than many sparrows! :cool:
 

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I have been watching the DS wield its "invisible hand" for forty-something years. I am well-aquainted with - shall I say - "quite a bit" - of the history of their evil workings - and - am aware of things that the greater part of humanity is totally oblivious to.

(There are others also who "understand" - but, unfortunately, we are the "drop in the bucket" of all who are in the world. The C19 experience appears to have added another drop or two - perhaps a few. But, the majority of the world population is still "caught in the MATRIX" and "asleep at the wheel"...)

One of the things I have discovered in all of this is that God will often not allow them to accomplish their agenda on their intended schedule. If it were not for this, a LOT of evildoing would have already occurred long before now.

Therefore, a lot of "predictions" do not occur "on time" as "appearances and evidences" would seem to dictate.

This is why you "keep hearing" about things that are expected to happen "any time now" - because, God is preventing [certain things] from transpiring - until, at the very least, it fits into His plans.

However, at the same time, the more time that goes by, the more desperate the DS gets to accomplish their agenda.

There are many things that are currently "on the verge" of happening very soon and quickly - if God allows it.

The Bible actually gives us some of the best "clues" to help us understand what is going on in the world; however, we must interpret them correctly or we will end up making erroneous guesses - and, the most important thing to remember is that Bible prophecy is in God"s timing.
 

GaryA

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But on the upside, it is now very easy to see why you're single. No mystery there at all anymore.
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You guys are being snobbish and should be ashamed of yourselves.

What minor characteristic of your life might someone else determine is cause enough that you should not deserve to share love and affection with a close companion in a marital relationship?

SMH

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You guys are being snobbish and should be ashamed of yourselves.

What minor characteristic of your life might someone else determine is cause enough that you should not deserve to share love and affection with a close companion in a marital relationship?

SMH

:(

Well to be fair, he keeps expressing things as if he's the only one that gets it and everyone else is too obtuse or don't care.

I don't mind that he's trying to look for love in these difficult times though. *Shrug* It can happen. 🤷


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Well I grew up with flapjacks they are normally smaller and thicker than pancakes (as least the ones in my childhood were) and it had butter on it and either jam (apricot or strawberry or golden syrup)

Yes well as said I can't believe that was used but then I guess any excuse could be.

Still awake but thanks for the sentiments.
I will include a pic of the ones I made to give a visual. I like to put butter and maple syrup on mine. And thinking about it, I think this pic is those pancakes of doom lol :unsure:

I think some people will use any excuse once they've already checked out. Men and women do this.

Midnight here. Hope you finally got to sleep! pancakesOfdoom.jpg
 
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His people are always removed from calamity, unless they are being disobedient. How about Sodom and Gomorrah, Noah and the Arc, Moses and the Red Sea and the many times God intervened in wars against His people. A modern-day example, during the Yom Kippur War, Israel would have been wiped out but Golda Meir called President Nixon and asked for help saying they would be destroyed if they didn't get backup. He said he knew then why he was President and said YES and sent ample artillery to Israel to win the war and survive.

'You obeyed my message and endured. So, I will protect you from the time of testing everyone in all the world must go through' Rev 3:10.
Lol was it His people were removed from the calamity or was the calamity removed from His people? There is a difference.

The belief is the "rapture" takes place first and removes His people and yet that has never happened, the wicked were removed aka "raptured" but His people remained.

Go look at Jesus's words again the wicked are removed first (the tares) are uprooted first and burned then the wheat are then brought in His barn.

So I wouldn't want to be part of the "rapture" thank you.

Let's look as well at the Lord Jesus's prayer thy kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven.

It is clear and from Revelation that He is coming to set His kingdom on earth. For His dwelling place it to be with His people. That is what He wants.

You are referring to the state of rothchilds here... It is by their hand it came into being via the Balfour Declaration in case you didn't know?...

I see that much of the Bible has transcendental fulfillment, meaning it happens more than once and already did...

There is no real proof that the Revelations 3:10 is pertaining to the "rapture" that is just an association many have been taught based on Margaret McDonald visions and as said she was discredited at the time by those Christians who associated her visions being from the devil.

Then there is the book of Daniel where it states we will go through the tribulation period...

However I understand I once believed all this myself but no longer... So feel free to keep hoping for the "rapture" if you so wish. I myself will prepare and do what I can to survive through the tribulation period.