question thats bugged me for years

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spock11

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why do guys feel guilty if they get there their girl friends pregnant before marriage and why are girls scared or shocked and why are girls afraid to tell their parents.
 
because FORNICATION is a Sin and God convicts them and tells them they should repent and learn about God and His love and His ways.

2 Corinthians 7:8-10

New King James Version (NKJV)

8 For even if I made you sorry with my letter, I do not regret it; though I did regret it. For I perceive that the same epistle made you sorry, though only for a while. 9 Now I rejoice, not that you were made sorry, but that your sorrow led to repentance. For you were made sorry in a godly manner, that you might suffer loss from us in nothing. 10 For godly sorrow produces repentance leading to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces death.



Hebrews 12:27-29

King James Version (KJV)


27And this word, Yet once more, signifieth the removing of those things that are shaken, as of things that are made, that those things which cannot be shaken may remain.
28Wherefore we receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace, whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear:
29For our God is a consuming fire.
 
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spock11 said:
why do guys feel guilty if they get there their girl friends pregnant before marriage and why are girls scared or shocked and why are girls afraid to tell their parents.
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Because in the modern world it is frowned upon to not follow certain rituals in the right sequence. And many people experience negative emotions when they are going to receive a frown. I'm not one of these people but this my guess.
 
Nawo said:
Because in the modern world it is frowned upon to not follow certain rituals in the right sequence. And many people experience negative emotions when they are going to receive a frown. I'm not one of these people but this my guess.
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Try Romans 2:14-15
 
Nawo said:
Yes, there is christian influence on the frowning in the US
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Romans 2:14-15 isn't speaking on one specific grouping of peoples, but rather, the sum of the whole: "Those without the Law"

Are you here for intelligent discussion, or to sow discord?
 
jimmydiggs said:
Romans 2:14-15 isn't speaking on one specific grouping of peoples, but rather, the sum of the whole: "Those without the Law"

Are you here for intelligent discussion, or to sow discord?
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I'm just a cute japanese girl who wants to take place in polite discussions with my fellow chat/forum members. You are very mistaken if you think I gain any pleasure from making others uncomfortable. I would you give you a big giant hug if I could.;)
 
Nawo said:
I'm just a cute japanese girl who wants to take place in polite discussions with my fellow chat/forum members. You are very mistaken if you think I gain any pleasure from making others uncomfortable. I would you give you a big giant hug if I could.;)
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Your profile, and some of your posts seem to tell another story.

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Nawo said:
Waaaaaaaaahhhhhhh! You're a stalker! I like that! :P
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Flattering, but I must make my stand and crucify the flesh.

I also stand by what Paul wrote.

1 Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.


I will, however, admit that had that remark been stated in the manner it has been, it would have been a stumbling block. I am greatful to have been set free from bondage by Christ.
 
For guys I don't think its guilt as much as it is the thought that "I'll probably have to marry this girl now", and well girls never want to disappoint their parents.
 
My apartment's ip address was blocked from that site so I tried to use a proxy site but they detected it.
Guess I'll have to check it out at school unless someone from there was banned too. LOL
 
Jimmydiggs: Lol 4chan. I go there occasionally. It's a lot better place now that the ponies are everywhere. /b/ is still awful though. But then /b/ was never good.

as to the question, people are scared about it because, well, getting pregnant as a young adult or teenager when your not in a position to support it is terrifying. It leads you into a series of incredibly difficult decisions, none easier than the other. The concept of having to be responsible for a child is a terrifying realization, especially if your young and in school. The guilt, however, is basically a result of the Christian ideals that permeate our cultural mindset. Because lets face it, parents can get really angry over it.
 
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