Christian Men -- Would You Marry a Woman Who's Kissed 50 Different Men?

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Christian Men -- Would You Marry a Woman Who's Kissed 50 Other Men Before You?

  • Yes -- but only if she had once been an unbeliever and had an excuse.

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • Yes -- her past is forgiven and I'm only concerned with our present and future.

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • Yes -- if she's good-looking enough to overlook her past.

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Yes -- if God is telling me to marry her, I will obey.

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • Maybe -- it depends on her story.

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • No -- I haven't kissed that many women and wouldn't want a wife who did.

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • No -- I've kissed just as many and/or more women, but it's different for a man.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • No -- I want a woman who's only kissed as many people as I have or less.

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • No -- I want a woman who hasn't kissed anyone else.

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • Other -- I have thoughts I want to post in the thread.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Total voters
    7
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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RodB651 said:
Kisses and smooches are two different things. One is more playful than the other.

You'll have to figure out for yourself which one that is!

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OOOHHH, I think Rodney has just declared himself an Expert On Smooches and Kisses!!! :D

We will have to stay tuned and learn from the maestro! :cool:
 
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RodB651

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seoulsearch said:
OOOHHH, I think Rodney has just declared himself an Expert On Smooches and Kisses!!! :D

We will have to stay tuned and learn from the maestro! :cool:
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Ohhhh no no no...

I'm just saying you gotta figure that part out... 🙃
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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May 23, 2009
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We're now up to 3 voters in the poll!!!

Thank you so much, gentlemen, for your honesty! :)
 
Lynx

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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CarriePie said:
True, and I don't know the relationship of the two people in the song. So, it's probably best left as it is. I got too rambunctious due to the topic of the thread!
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It's actually a pretty romantic song.


 
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RodB651

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Tall_Timbers said:
I'm married and even if my wife passed away I think I'm done with any dating. If my situation were different though, I wouldn't want to date more than one woman at a time and if the person I was dating was dating others I think I'd conclude that we're not compatible. As far as a person's past, I'd have to treat each person uniquely and give them the benefit of any doubt. I would want to date a person long enough to know them well enough to be able to determine if they would be a good choice for a spouse. When I was younger I would have missed a lot of potential warning signs. I've lived enough now that I think I could know a person pretty well before asking or not asking for her hand.
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@seoulsearch ..

Tall Timbers said this far better than I ever could. I know its not part of the poll but I would vote for this ☝
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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Tall_Timbers said:
I'm married and even if my wife passed away I think I'm done with any dating. If my situation were different though, I wouldn't want to date more than one woman at a time and if the person I was dating was dating others I think I'd conclude that we're not compatible. As far as a person's past, I'd have to treat each person uniquely and give them the benefit of any doubt. I would want to date a person long enough to know them well enough to be able to determine if they would be a good choice for a spouse. When I was younger I would have missed a lot of potential warning signs. I've lived enough now that I think I could know a person pretty well before asking or not asking for her hand.
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Always great to see you, @Tall_Timbers - thanks for stopping by.

We are always blessed by the wisdom you take the time to share with us. :)
 
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Karlon

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how would anyone know a woman kissed 50 men unless she says so? my wife had many many dates when she was young, by her admission. me, almost as guilty. i was a northeast drummer playing in rock bands. i could have kissed, without doubt, 300 to 400 women & behaved very sinfully. but i realized after 1 week on the road sinning with women, that that is very wrong. i'm happily married but if i was single, i would be the extra cautious guy. to me, the woman should make the 1st move of a hug or kiss.
 
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