Hello Off123123123, God does not delight in suffering itself, whether it is His Son's or ours, rather, He is pleased with the results (the good that comes from suffering, that is), be it His Son's or ours.
For instance,
Hebrews 12
4 You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood in your striving against sin;
5 and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons,
“MY SON, DO NOT REGARD LIGHTLY THE DISCIPLINE OF THE LORD,
NOR FAINT WHEN YOU ARE REPROVED BY HIM;
6 FOR THOSE WHOM THE LORD LOVES HE DISCIPLINES,
AND HE SCOURGES EVERY SON WHOM HE RECEIVES.”
7 It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline?
8 But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons.
9 Furthermore, we had earthly fathers to discipline us, and we respected them; shall we not much rather be subject to the Father of spirits, and live?
10 For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us ~for our good~, so that we may ~share His holiness~.
11 All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the ~peaceful fruit of righteousness~.
The Father's principal attribute, the one by which He relates most closely to us, that is, is love. If He took some sort of sadistic pleasure in seeing anyone suffer, even the reprobate, then He would a monster, not what He is and has proven Himself to be, our loving, heavenly Father/Abba.
God bless you!!
~Deuteronomy (David)
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"We know that God causes all things to work together
for good to those who love God, to those who
are called according to His purpose"
Romans 8:28
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