OK, after much prayer, meditation, and procrastination, this is where I landed. Thank you for your input (and it is still welcome with this). And I will honor any credits requested.
Is there an age of accountability to God?
Deuteronomy 1:39 "Moreover your little ones and your children, who you say will be victims, who today have no knowledge of good and evil, they shall go in there; to them I will give it, and they shall possess it.
This is when the tribes of Israel where in the desert and refused to enter the Promised Land because of fear of its inhabitants. God decided to punish the people by forcing them to wonder in the desert for 40 years, so that all of the generation that had refused God would die and never enter it. But as He says about the little ones:
"who today have no knowledge of good and evil"… they inherited the land promised to their fathers. They were innocent of the sins of their fathers.
Paul wrote in Romans 7:7-11 …Indeed, I would not have been mindful of sin if not for the law. For I would not have been aware of coveting if the law had not said, “Do not covet.”
8 But sin, seizing its opportunity through the commandment, produced in me every kind of covetous desire. For apart from the law, sin is dead.
9 Once I was alive apart from the law; but when the commandment came, sin sprang to life and I died.
10 So I discovered that the very commandment that was meant to bring life actually brought death.
11 For sin, seizing its opportunity through the commandment, deceived me and through the commandment put me to death.
Paul says he was alive, then learned right from wrong, and that was the source of his death. Once Paul came to understand Good and Evil, his carnal nature came to the fore and killed him. Until then, he was alive.
Then there’s David’s lament after the death of his 7-day old son…
2 Samuel 12:21 Then his servants said to him, "What is this that you have done? You fasted and wept for the child while he was alive, but when the child died, you arose and ate food." 22And he said, "While the child was alive, I fasted and wept; for I said, "Who can tell whether the LORD will be gracious to me, that the child may live?' 23But now he is dead; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again?
I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me."
And where was David going?
(Psalm 23:6) "Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in The House of The LORD forever."
David was confident His little one would be there in heaven awaiting him.
Jesus said on the subject,
Matthew 18:3: "And He said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven."
Matthew 18:10 "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.
Matthew 19:14: "...Suffer little children, and forbid them not to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven."
Jesus also summed it up with this:
John 9:41 Jesus said, “If you were blind, you would not be guilty of your sin. But now that you claim you can see, your guilt remains.”
Think of Adam and Eve before they ate from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. They were with God, until they came to understand that there was an option. That’s when life changes to death.
So we are conceived alive, and remain so until we learn there is an option.