Your church does not teach sound doctrine. Your nameless church does not teach sound doctrine.
16For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that
everyone who believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.
18Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe has already been condemned, because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son. John 3
You clearly have no understand of the meaning of the word elect nor do you understand that God has put out an invitation to the entire world to accept His Son. Those who accept Him have eternal life.
YOU condemn what you think are non-elect and think you speak what is true. BUT in v. 17 we see that God did not send Christ into the world to condemn the world . Yet, you continually condemn those you wrongly state God condemn even thought He does not condemn
anyone who believes and accepts. Those people are called RIGHTEOUS.
God has not made 2 classes of people....declared some righteous and some not righteous. EVERY PERSON BORN HAS THE OPPORTUNITY TO ACCEPT CHRIST AND BE DECLARED RIGHTEOUS IN HIM.