Good thread to break this issue down.
We are ALL lost, until God does a work in us. We are spiritually DEAD. Not sick, or just MOSTLY dead.
Ephesians 2
New King James Version
By Grace Through Faith
2 And you
He made alive, who
were dead in trespasses and sins, 2 in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, 3 among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind,
and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others.
We are born in the spiritually fallen image and likeness of Adam.
Genesis 5:3
New King James Version
3 And Adam lived one hundred and thirty years,
and begot a son in his own likeness, after his image, and named him Seth.
So God then gifts us the faith to believe in Jesus.
Ephesians 2:8-9
New King James Version
8 For by grace you have been saved
through faith, and that not of yourselves;
it is the gift of God, 9 not of works, lest anyone should boast.
Yes the Salvation is a gift, but the GRACE tells us here how we have been saved. It would be highly redundant to say "By the Grace gift you have ben saved". The MECHANISM by which the Grace is applied is the FAITH that is gifted to us by God.
EVERYTHING we have and are is from God.
You are intelligent? From God
You have wisdom? From God
You have the Word? From God
You have FAITH?
FROM GOD.
James 1:17 NKJV
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.
So if faith isn't a gift from God where does it come from? Ah! I know.
Faith comes by hearing! Yup, but let's take a closer look at that.
Romans 10:17
New King James Version
17 So then faith
comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
COMES BY
1537. ek or ex
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Strong's Concordance
ek or ex: from, from out of
Original Word: ἐκ, ἐξ
Part of Speech: Preposition
Transliteration: ek or ex
Phonetic Spelling: (ek)
Definition: from, from out of
Usage: from out, out from among, from, suggesting from the interior outwards.
Here we see upon hearing the Gospel our faith that is ALREADY in us, put there by God, is ACTIVATED.
This enables the formally dead to believe and become born again.
John 1
12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name:
Now who ARE these ones that received Him and became children of God?
Well, the VERY next verse tells us who they are:
13 who were born, not of blood,
nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
So no matter how want to look at it, dead men can't choose ANYTHING, it is ALL of God.