Please pray for me I want to end my life

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blueriversice

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I am planning to leave my abusive brother because he tortures me to death so bad everyday. It's as bad as gyspy rose situtation. I have been hurting myself everyday because of him. He is also extremely aggressive and abusive. He is over controlling even as an adult he watches everything I do. Please pray that God can hear this and get me away from the abusive brother I have. He tortures me so bad I can't even function. I almost fell down the stairs and I have been starving. I have been tempted to end my life. Please pray I am being tortured so badly and I am so scared when I'm around him. Please pray for me I can't just call the police because he threatens me. The way out is to go live with my dad.
 
HealthAndHappiness

HealthAndHappiness

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There was a lady last year who also had an abusive brother. If you are a different lady, I hope this is not becoming a trend.

Your life is too important to think of such things. This will pass and improve. Just take positive action right now.
You need to let your Dad know what has happened and ask him to pick you up right away. Sounds like you need protection. If I were you, I'd bag up your belongings as quickly as possible when the brother leaves the house and be ready when your Dad arrives. Laundry bags are big, baskets, pillow cases and sheets from all beds can carry the belongings in.

I will pray for your safety, but that's all I can do. I would not even discuss this with the brother. He is your brother, so it's not like trying to reconcile with a husband. You need a man to protect you. Your Dad loves you and is that man God has provided to defend against that kind of physical assault from your brother.
 
Bingo

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"Not knowing the entire situation, I can only pray you come to find
peace and wellbeing in your life, and that your problems are attended to
accordingly for a reprieve."
'Amen'

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ResidentAlien

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blueriversice said:
I am planning to leave my abusive brother because he tortures me to death so bad everyday. It's as bad as gyspy rose situtation. I have been hurting myself everyday because of him. He is also extremely aggressive and abusive. He is over controlling even as an adult he watches everything I do. Please pray that God can hear this and get me away from the abusive brother I have. He tortures me so bad I can't even function. I almost fell down the stairs and I have been starving. I have been tempted to end my life. Please pray I am being tortured so badly and I am so scared when I'm around him. Please pray for me I can't just call the police because he threatens me. The way out is to go live with my dad.
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If living with your dad is a better alternative then by all means do it. Since you're an adult, a women's shelter might be a better option, if you can find a good one. Sometimes family involvement has a tendency to compound problems. The Salvation Army would be a good place to start; they could advise you on the best options in your area.

Please don't kill yourself; there are many other options. I will pray for the Lord's help for you. Keep looking up, things will get better.
 
Pardizzle

Pardizzle

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I am stopping what I am doing right now, and lifting you up in prayer. You are very important to God and He loves you!
 
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mikebcn

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May you find the strenght and serenity to move somewhere where you can function, be safe and focus on work, your health and meeting positive people. If your dad can at least for now offer that positive environment, by all means do that and with distance, pray that your brother may change his abusive and ignorant ways and perhaps some day not far reconcile and respect each other like good brothers.
Ask for strength, protection and resolution to better your life with the help of your dad. Amen.
 
Daniel_Hoseiny

Daniel_Hoseiny

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blueriversice said:
The way out is to go live with my dad.
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So, is this a better option? Then do it. Don't end your life for God's sake.


The Lord did not promise:
Days without pain
Smiles without sorrow
Clear weather without rain

But He promised:
Strength for every day
Comfort in every pain
A smile for every tear
And light to illuminate the journey of our lives

Good day! Have a nice week!
 
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j55

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I would move in with your dad. Your in toxic environment. Get away ffom him as quick as possible. Proverbs chapter 4.
Above all else, guard your heart, for every thing you do flows from it. Mental abuse and emotional abuse happens in Toxic environment. Get out fast as possible.
Psalm chapter 1
Blessed is man that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and in his law does he mediate day and night.

Don't allow it to impede on your spiritual growth. You're relationship with God is important. My advice, move in with your dad and avoid him as much as possible. Peace.
 
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Marianneg

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I will pray for you and you protection. Maybe you can talk to social warfare to help you. But I pray that u get help
 
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