I bought my son a bike when he was 5. He learned to balance without training wheels. I told him not to go too fast or he would hurt himself. Sure enough, he went too fast and hit something. I did not make that happen just because I bought the bike and warned him. God clearly warned Adam and told him the consequences of disobedience. God did not make Adam choose incorrectly.
Sure, God could have chosen not to create Adam. This is how I see it:
1. God is by nature Father and Father's by nature want children
2. A real relationship can only be based on free choice, not compulsion
3. God created man in His own image, something most people seem to overlook.
4. God presented man with a real choice with real consequences.
5. Adam made the worst decision in human history.
6. God solved the problem by sending Jesus in human form to be the Last Adam
7. Once more, man has a choice.
I asked God why He did not just kill Adam and Eve and start again. I persisted with this question as I was genuinely puzzled. The Lord said to me, "I did. The cross did not only kill Jesus but the whole of the human race. Jesus rose again to be the Founder of a whole new race of people, Christians."
Jesus is the last Adam who did everything that God required of man. We transfer out of the old and into newness of life when we accept Christ. We are still in the world but no longer of the world. If we realised this, we would likely not get so involved in the affairs of the world.
Thanks I enjoyed your post as so many good points, I think a point of slight difference with me would be, God intended for sin to enter the world through Adam, before the first act of creation happened it happened with the forethought of a sinful world, we can see it in animals with isolation and adaptation so many different breeds have come about, they were made with so much DNA information and which made such good use of the fallen world to show forth Gods forethought and creative genius.
All I'm trying to say is when Adam sinned God didn't go "oh Noe" "that's a bit of an oopsie" and then needed to introduce plan B, which is Jesus Christ now has to come and fix everything, but I'm saying before Adam was even created the plan was for Jesus Christ to come fix everything.
Which Is why when you say
2. A real relationship can only be based on free choice, not compulsion
Is exactly why sin had to enter the world, we need the option to obey or disobey God to know what the sin nature is and for us to hate it, and to choose what is right or wrong, and it makes perfect sense and lines up with Gods nature or character which is not to have us as robots with no ability to choose.
This is why Jesus is rereferred to as the lamb slain before the foundation of the world rev 13
We are also known before the foundation of the world
"For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren" Romans 8:29 and tonnes of other verses
And while I agree Adam chose wrongly as we all would have in his place, I'm just saying it was planned to happen that way, God is in total control He can see the future so if He wanted to He could have made sure there was no serpent in the garden but then to me that would wreck everything if Adam did not choose wrongly and sin.
Im not trying to nitpick but it does make a big difference on other topics like Eph 6:12 or if demons make us sin, or even that Satan is the arch nemesis of God is a joke to me.
For example Gods plan is for the Antichrist to rule the world, but Im sure you would have heard some people say it is Satan's plan, again can Satan really bring to fruition something against Gods plan where God has to say "Dang nab it, its happened again time for plan b to fix everything up"?