Questioning my beliefs

[JackiAsi205]

I honestly have hit a point in life where I just don’t care anymore. My crush led me on and found someone else, I only have anger left. Honestly I don’t think god will do anything about it either cuz he usually doesn’t. Im tired of these life lessons. I’m just gonna give up on everything. I dont even think god cares. I think he just wants to watch me suffer.

 

[timemeddler]

Don't give up on account of others, bad things happen in life to all of us, remember bad things happen.

 

[ResidentAlien]

I honestly have hit a point in life where I just don’t care anymore. My crush led me on and found someone else, I only have anger left. Honestly I don’t think god will do anything about it either cuz he usually doesn’t. Im tired of these life lessons. I’m just gonna give up on everything. I dont even think god cares. I think he just wants to watch me suffer.

Actually God is the only one who really does care. He wants our faith yes, but He wants more than that; He wants all of us. Put Him first in everything and let Him show you how much He cares.

 

[Magenta]

I honestly have hit a point in life where I just don’t care anymore. My crush led me on and found
someone else, I only have anger left. Honestly I don’t think god will do anything about it either
cuz he usually doesn’t. Im tired of these life lessons. I’m just gonna give up on everything.
I dont even think god cares. I think he just wants to watch me suffer.

Who are you angry at? I hope it's yourself. First for allowing yourself to be played, and then for wanting to
give up after ignoring the warning signs and good counsel you received from others when you sought input.

Anger is a stage of grief. There are others, also. Better than being in denial.

According to Kübler-Ross, the five stages of grief are:

denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance

 

[Genipher]

Please don't give up on the One who loves you most just because a mere man showed himself to be an ungodly ass.

 

[Magenta]

Sounds more like you are in depression. Anger is motivating, whereas depression is enervating.

Lots of people don't come to more fully rely on God until they come to the end of themselves.

 

[Magenta]

Don't give up on account of others, bad things happen in life to all of us, remember bad things happen.

Welcome!

 

[JackiAsi205]

Please don't give up on the One who loves you most just because a mere man showed himself to be an ungodly ass.

Honestly I don’t feel like the Christian community is really loving anyways. I always feel like there’s ppl always judging me somehow

 

[JackiAsi205]

Who are you angry at? I hope it's yourself. First for allowing yourself to be played, and then for wanting to
give up after ignoring the warning signs and good counsel you received from others when you sought input.

Anger is a stage of grief. There are others, also. Better than being in denial.

According to Kübler-Ross, the five stages of grief are:

denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance

So i hope you know that i am not a psychic. Also its not my fault. Stop victim blaming cuz it really doesn’t help anyone. There’s no way i could’ve seen into the future. No we weren’t dating but i still liked him, you can’t control who you like. He seemed pretty genuine and my mom liked him too, and my mom is very wise. I was surprised that he would’ve led me on. There were no signs that he was anyways. So if u expected me to somehow know this was gonna happen, im sorry but u don’t know the situation. There’s literally no way i could’ve known he was going to lead me on.

 

[JackiAsi205]

Who are you angry at? I hope it's yourself. First for allowing yourself to be played, and then for wanting to
give up after ignoring the warning signs and good counsel you received from others when you sought input.

Anger is a stage of grief. There are others, also. Better than being in denial.

According to Kübler-Ross, the five stages of grief are:

denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance

Most of the counsel you are talking about is people telling me to wait and get to know him. That has nothing to do with me “letting” myself get led on. As if i knew about it the first place? Tf

 

[JackiAsi205]

Who are you angry at? I hope it's yourself. First for allowing yourself to be played, and then for wanting to
give up after ignoring the warning signs and good counsel you received from others when you sought input.

Anger is a stage of grief. There are others, also. Better than being in denial.

According to Kübler-Ross, the five stages of grief are:

denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance

And yes i know the 5 stages of grief, im studying psychology.

 

[seekingthemindofChrist]

I honestly have hit a point in life where I just don’t care anymore. My crush led me on and found someone else, I only have anger left. Honestly I don’t think god will do anything about it either cuz he usually doesn’t. Im tired of these life lessons. I’m just gonna give up on everything. I dont even think god cares. I think he just wants to watch me suffer.

In hindsight, I am sorry for my attempt at humor while responding to one of your posts on another thread. I really did not know anything about you or what you are presently going through. That was just me being stupid. Sorry.

 

[Magenta]

Stop victim blaming cuz it really doesn’t help anyone.

Stop playing the victim... You know how? By taking personal responsibility. You saw the red flags.

 

[JackiAsi205]

In hindsight, I am sorry for my attempt at humor while responding to one of your posts on another thread. I really did not know anything about you or what you are presently going through. That was just me being stupid. Sorry.

I dont remember what you said but i guess it didn’t bother me if i don’t remember so you’re good

 

[JackiAsi205]

Stop playing the victim...

So you’re telling me i was supposed to see into the future? And somehow predict that he was gonna lead me on? Thats…ok whatever you want ig

 

[Magenta]

So you’re telling me i was supposed to see into the future?

I did not say anything of the sort. You played along with him, knowing he was not really available.

And now you want to blame God?

 

[JackiAsi205]

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I know that I am a complete stranger, but please don't fall into the trap of having to defend yourself against false accusations.

Its hard because all my life my voice has never been heard. Everyone would just step over me, like I’m nothing.

 

[seekingthemindofChrist]

Its hard because all my life my voice has never been heard. Everyone would just step over me, like I’m nothing.

I understand. There's been a lot of rejection in my own past, so I can relate. As far as your actual worth is concerned, Jesus was willing to die for you, so he must think that you are worth a lot.

 

[Magenta]

I know that I am a complete stranger, but please don't fall into the trap of having to defend yourself against false accusations.

You can check out all her threads on this. It's not like nothing is known of this situation.

 

[seekingthemindofChrist]

You can check out all her threads on this. It's not like nothing is known of this situation.

In fairness to you, that seems like a reasonable suggestion. Admittedly, I am a bit in the dark. In any case, it is always best to try to understand people and help them where they are presently at.