BE HONEST AND HELP ME

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IM A 19YRS OLD BOY, VERY SHY... BUT RECENTLY I NOTICE THAT I WALK AND DO THINGS LIKE A GIRL, I WILL NOT SAY GAY OR BI SEXUAL COS IM STRAIGHT I DNT HAVE FEELINGS OR EVEN ADMIRE GUYS., Ppl think i am but i an not... what should i do... pls say anything u think will help cos i feel lìke killing my self
 
Hi!
There aren't two single people on this planet that are the same and not all boys are the same either. Some are more manly, some seem not to be so. We all have our different gifts and different mission in life from God, so don't worry if you don't seem to fit in a pattern. You are special just the way you are. Try and find out more how God sees you, then you won't worry so much about how people see you.
God bless you!
 
T_spoon, I don't think there's anything wrong with you just because you exhibit effeminate characteristics. If you personally do see a problem, then pray to God to help you find a solution for it. Also, if you remember who you are in Christ, your self-esteem should get better.

Remember that He loves you
 
My friend. Jesus Christ can wipe this away. Sometimes these things are lingering spirits, that need to be dealt with, like lust. God creates with order, so when things are not according to purpose, and order, it is not of him.

I have some lingering things from my past also, but Jesus is cleansing me of them. He can do the same for you.

May Jesus bless you.

p.s. I think they are called familiar spirits. I am not sure though.
 
T_spoon said:
IM A 19YRS OLD BOY, VERY SHY... BUT RECENTLY I NOTICE THAT I WALK AND DO THINGS LIKE A GIRL, I WILL NOT SAY GAY OR BI SEXUAL COS IM STRAIGHT I DNT HAVE FEELINGS OR EVEN ADMIRE GUYS., Ppl think i am but i an not... what should i do... pls say anything u think will help cos i feel lìke killing my self
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Don't kill yourself, I think you over think your actions to think you are a girl. Jesus can help you on any situation, just go to Him and ask Him for help. While praying or asking after have trust in Jesus and rely that He will help and you will find help. Just trust that He will do it.

God bless
 
Hey T_Spoon...I married a man who had certain feminine characteristics, but he is straight as an arrow. God has someone in mond for you to marry that He created for you to love you. Things may seem rough right now, but this too shall pass. God lives in eternity and we live in time. I say this because I want you to know that this is a temporary situation.
Now, if you feel that this is causing a barrier with family and friends, write down on a piece of paper everything that you feel needs to be changed. After that, find a Scripture concerning that and confess it every day....believe it or not, you will start walking in what the Word says. I.E. I had a problem with lustful thoughts, so I found a Scripture (For our weapons are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of the strongholds. Casting down every imagination and every high thing that exalts against the knowledge of God.) After awhile, my thoughts had change, and I now do not have the lustful thoughts in the magnitude that I was. The Word is real and the Word with the HOly Spirit on it gives life.
I pray this has helped you!
Keep your eye on the cross!
Love in Christ,
TruTeacher.
 
take dance class and play football. football players take ballet to work on their foot work and be more nimble and not be tackled, etc. or you can try martial arts or something that will allow you to learn self control and then you can walk how ever you want with purpose and intent. or acting classes. anyway, outward appearances can be changed what concerns me is that your heart is troubled and hurt by others words.

know always that God made you and loves you. May you feel His peace and love in your heart, In Jesus name we pray.
 
i know quite a few guys who act somewhat less masculine but i know are straight and most of them are still AWESOME! lol if you dont care what people think and just cut loose, then other people wont care either
 
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