Dear Gideon,
God bless you for your thoughtful reply and the excellent point you brought up. Before trading back and forth with you some scriptures, I would like to give you how I became a Christian. The following is what happened to me.
My parents, although they were very moral people, never went to church, never prayed for our food and never talked about God. My grandmother took me to church once a year at Easter.
When I was 26 years old, I was an insurance salesman, and that September, the janitor of the building invited me to a home Bible study. I liked him and did not want to disappoint him so I accepted.
At the home Bible study, the preacher from Weed, California was there leading it. It was his intention to start a church here in the Reno area. Anyway, since I did not have a Bible, the preacher gave me one to use for that night. When I opened it up, I was "blown" away. Here was a book that had numbers by each scripture and running down the center of the page was a lot of scripture references. I told the preacher, "Who could ever learn anything out of a book like this!"
As it turned out, I liked the first Bible study and continued to come. It was now the middle of December and the preacher told us that this was the last time he would come until next spring as the winter driving that long distance was too much!
At the end of the Bible study that evening, he asked me if I would like to become a Christian. I said, I would like that."
Then he said, "Let's knell right here by the couch and say the 'Sinner's Prayer'."
I said, "What's the Sinner's Prayer?"
He said, "I will lead you in it. Just repeat it after me." “Father, I know that I have sinned and only through Jesus can I be saved. Please forgive me for my sins. I confess Jesus, Your Son as the Son of God. Please give me your Holy Spirit to dwell in me so that I can be yours forever. Amen!"
Upon finishing the prayer, the preacher said to me, "Now, Wayne, you are a Christian. God has forgiven you of all your sins and are saved and you have His Spirit dwelling in you."
I felt good and thanked him for helping me to become a Christian. After prayer, he left to go back to Week, California and it was just a couple of days before Christmas.
My brother Terry got home from Bible college just in time for Christmas. The next day, after our celebrating Christmas, when I was alone with Terry, I told him that I had become a Christian. He was excited for me and asked me, "When were you baptized?"
I said, "I don't know what you are talking about."
Terry said, "You know, immersed, dunked in water."
I said, "I still don't know what you are talking about."
Terry said, "You mean you were never baptized?"
I said, "No!"
He said, "You have to be baptized to become a Christian."
I said, "Terry, I did become a Christian when I prayed the Sinner's prayer in accepted Jesus as my Savior."
He said, "The Bible says that you have to be baptized to be saved and become a Christian."
At this time I STOPPED our conversation and I must hasten to say that I really liked my brother and the conversation we just had was not an adversarial one and I realized he said what he said out of concern.
Well, sometime earlier, he had shown a book before we had this conversation. It was called, "Strong's Exhaustive Concordance" and it had every word in the Bible in it. So I said to Terry, "Give me your Strong's Exhaustive Concordance, and I will talk to you at the end of the week.
So for the next five days, for the first time, I studied the Bible for myself. Both the preacher and my brother Terry had mentioned the word "saved". So I reasoned that I should look up every word in the New Testament that had the words:
save, saves, and saved and I should be able to get this all gured out. There were 88 places in the New Testament starting in Matthew and ending in Revelation where I found the three words, but it was not until I reached 1 Peter that I found this scripture:
1 Peter 3:21 Corresponding to that, baptism now saves you, not the removal of dirt from the flesh, but an appeal to God for a good conscience through the resurrection of Jesus Christ
There were just nine more scriptures that I hadn't looked at yet and I went on to examine them, too. Then I decided to look up every scripture in the New Testament that mentioned baptism because of what I read in 1 Peter 3:21. There were 84 scriptures that I looked up. When I had finished, I came to the conclusion that I was still lost in my sins and that I needed to be baptized.
In my study of the subject of salvation, I learned five things:
First, no where did anyone ever say "The Sinner's Prayer".
Second, it was never said that if we would just "Trust" in Jesus, we would be saved.
Third, I learned that when a person came to believe that Jesus was the Son of God, they never waited, but were always baptized the same day.
Fourth, baptism was done by immersion, not sprinkling or pouring water on a person.
Fifth, you have to be baptized for the right reason for the baptism to be valid.
In summary, the things that I learned came from my study in God's word. No one taught me (except the preacher who lied to me) so no one can say I was just following the "party line" of whatever denomination I belonged to.
Upon inquiry, I found a church that Friday afternoon that would baptize me. That Friday evening, they were having a New Years Eve fellowship and said that if I wanted to be baptized, they would be happy to do it. So, just after midnight on January 1st, I was baptized in accordance with what Jesus said in Mark 16:15-16 and Acts 2:38.
In March, the following spring, the Preacher came back down from Weed, California, and invited me to his motel room as he had a Bible he wanted to give to me. I went to see him with anticipation, believing that I could tell him what I had discovered in studying about salvation.
After he gave the Bible to me, I broached the subject of salvation and baptism. After just a short time, he started refuting me and his voice began to rise. I tried to tell him some more, but then he flew into a rage and told me to get out of his motel room. He roughly shoved me towards the door and opened it and then shoved me out, slamming the door behind me. Unfortunately, I never saw him again.
Gideon, thank you for your time. If you want, I would love to continue our discussion. God bless you in all that you do.
In Christ our Lord,
Wayne