How to love your family, when God hates the nonelects?

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HeIsHere

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Live Christianity in front of them,one of them will see it and when they mature in it they will show you how...
If they are not the "elect" it does not matter, they are either chosen or they are not, God's mind is made up on the matter.
 

John146

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I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
Elect is to service. Once a person is in Christ, they are elect for service. Elect is never in the context of salvation.
 

HeIsHere

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God saved you. How do you know He will not yet be merciful to your family as well?
What is required is an act of belief/faith on Christ Jesus and His work on their behalf.... the act of divine mercy has already occurred in the time past when Jesus took on ALL sin for ALL sinners of all time.
 

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I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
I wish there was something I could say that would help you; however, you're so far off the rails all I can do is pray the Lord will help you. I'd suggest you do the same.
 

HeIsHere

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@hornetguy

That is not what I believe it is what the OP believes, I was just mirroring his belief, so if you disagree with me are you in agreement with the OP?
 

Blain

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@HeIsHere I am still in the process of reading the link you sent you I have to say so far I am not really impressed the scripture they use to prove their points for most part vaguely inplies what they are saying but it is shaky at best. Like this part on election one verse they use is Ephesians 1 3-6 how Paul speaks on how God chose them before the beginning of time but if you continue reading he goes on to express that according to his his and according to his purpose they were chosen to be the first to put their hope in Christ and to be for the praise of his glory.

See the issue I see here is they stopped at the one verse they used that says they are chosen elect but didn't continue reading as Paul explains what he means by that then goes even further saying to the gentiles how they are also included.


So.... yeah not impressed so far
 

hornetguy

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@hornetguy

That is not what I believe it is what the OP believes, I was just mirroring his belief, so if you disagree with me are you in agreement with the OP?
I do not believe there are a finite number of "elect" I think we determine who is "elect" by our belief or lack of belief in Jesus as our savior.
I thought you were agreeing with him.... I disagree with him.
 

Blain

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When a person has a conversion experience, it is quite common to discover that one, several, or many members of their family or peer group do not understand. After all, why would you talk and think about Jesus all the time? As far back as the Old Testament, the one born of the spirit was persecuted by the one born of the flesh. In Abram's case, he actually followed God out of the worldly family to the land that God would show him. And, in fact, if anyone leaves family or lands or such for Jesus' sake, they will receive more in this life and in the life to come eternal life. However, the parable of the weeds and the tares illustrates how the world continues to have saved and unsaved next to each other until the end. At that time, it will be revealed who was who. Christians generally adopt the love your enemies advice of Jesus, in hopes that others may be saved. Bible advice mentions that those who only love those who love them back do not have the reward, the reward that loving contrary persons have. If you love those who do not love you back, you are children of God, we learn.
My friend I enjoyed your post and I appreciate you trying to help him understand. Sadly though that would defeat the purpose if he is chosen and above them then he isn't doing it.

From the first post of his thread he boasted and lifted himself above his family mentioning how he was chosen and they were not.

He had no regard for their salvation he didn't care about their souls and he created the thread with the sole intent to stir things up and speak in his arrogance there is no reasoning with him that is not why he is is in this thread.
 

HeIsHere

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I do not believe there are a finite number of "elect" I think we determine who is "elect" by our belief or lack of belief in Jesus as our savior.
I thought you were agreeing with him.... I disagree with him.
Too funny, especially considering my extreme dislike of the doctrines of Calvinism, I agree with you 100%.

I guess I should have put *sarcasm* in the post.
 

HeIsHere

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Amen!!

Thank you for the link, another who sees.
 

Cameron143

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What is required is an act of belief/faith on Christ Jesus and His work on their behalf.... the act of divine mercy has already occurred in the time past when Jesus took on ALL sin for ALL sinners of all time.
Perhaps God will reveal this to them.
 

HeIsHere

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Perhaps God will reveal this to them.
You are funny, the revelation comes in through the sharing of the Good News, they need to accept if for themselves as a gift freely given to those who believe on Christ Jesus for it.
 

Cameron143

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You are funny, the revelation comes in through the sharing of the Good News, they need to accept if for themselves as a gift freely given to those who believe on Christ Jesus for it.
Sure. But blessing came to Peter when flesh and blood was not the source of His revelation, but God.
Your hatred of Calvinism has jaded you so severely that a simple statement of hope and encouragement to someone becomes to you a referendum on Salvation.
Anyone can tear down. Try to construct.
 

HeIsHere

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Sure. But blessing came to Peter when flesh and blood was not the source of His revelation, but God.
Your hatred of Calvinism has jaded you so severely that a simple statement of hope and encouragement to someone becomes to you a referendum on Salvation.
Anyone can tear down. Try to construct.
I see no point in building up harmful lies.
What happened with Peter is not to be generalized to all people for all time.
 

Magenta

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I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”
Luke 5:32

For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that he may have mercy on them all.
Rom 11:32

Pray (intercede) until your knees are sore. Then pray some more. Pray without ceasing until your "non elects" encounter The Lord.

Romans 11:32
:)
 

Blain

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Sure. But blessing came to Peter when flesh and blood was not the source of His revelation, but God.
Your hatred of Calvinism has jaded you so severely that a simple statement of hope and encouragement to someone becomes to you a referendum on Salvation.
Anyone can tear down. Try to construct.
I was just thinking about Peter. I was thinking about the relationship he had with Jesus. Among all the apostles Peter and Jesus had a bond that special I began wishing I could have at least been in there in spirit to watch the whole story go down going so far as to imagine I would be able to interact with Jesus as he would kind of stop time and explain things to me.

Then I starting thinking about how he said to Peter on this rock I will build my church. I vaguely remember and I may be wrong about this so please forgive me but I think it was either calvanism or the catholics or something that use that as a kind of source for making Peter a kind of high priest of their belief or something

Do you perhaps know what I am talking about? But I did wonder to myself what exactly did he mean by that.
 

Cameron143

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I see no point in building up harmful lies.
What happened with Peter is not to be generalized to all people for all time.
It's how Jesus said He would build His church. Probably a little important.
BTW...I was encouraging the person concerning his family. He has obviously laid hold of false doctrine. But gentleness
restores.
 

Magenta

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Then I starting thinking about how he said to Peter on this rock I will build my church. I vaguely remember and I may be wrong about this so please forgive me but I think it was either calvanism or the catholics or something that use that as a kind of source for making Peter a kind of high priest of their belief or something

Do you perhaps know what I am talking about? But I did wonder to myself what exactly did he mean by that.
The RCC calls Peter the first pope, and claim an unbroken line of succession back to him
even though the RCC did not come into existence until hundreds of years later. And yes,
they take that phase of Jesus about Peter's confession of faith, and say it means the church
is built on Peter, but in the Greek, two different words are used: one is Petra (feminine gender),
and the other is Petros (masculine gender). Both mean rock. Only one (the latter) applies to Peter.


Jesus is the Rock the church is built upon.
 

Cameron143

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I was just thinking about Peter. I was thinking about the relationship he had with Jesus. Among all the apostles Peter and Jesus had a bond that special I began wishing I could have at least been in there in spirit to watch the whole story go down going so far as to imagine I would be able to interact with Jesus as he would kind of stop time and explain things to me.

Then I starting thinking about how he said to Peter on this rock I will build my church. I vaguely remember and I may be wrong about this so please forgive me but I think it was either calvanism or the catholics or something that use that as a kind of source for making Peter a kind of high priest of their belief or something

Do you perhaps know what I am talking about? But I did wonder to myself what exactly did he mean by that.
There are a number of views of this. Some believe Peter is the rock spoken of. Other, his profession. I believe the rock spoken of is the revelation of God of the person of the Lord Jesus Christ.
 

HeIsHere

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It's how Jesus said He would build His church. Probably a little important.
BTW...I was encouraging the person concerning his family. He has obviously laid hold of false doctrine. But gentleness
restores.
Jesus was not referring to personal illumination as how He would build His church, again that is stretching the meaning of His words.

“Since the whole human race is blind and stubborn, those faults remain fixed in our nature until they are corrected by the grace of the Spirit, and that comes only from election. Two people may hear the same teaching together; yet one is willing to learn, and the other persists in his obstinacy. They do not differ in nature, but God illumines one and not the other. We are, indeed, made God’s children by faith--faith is for us the door and beginning of salvation; but there is something deeper with God. He does not begin to choose us after we believe, but by the gift of faith he seals the adoption that was hidden in our hearts and makes it manifest and sure.” (Acts: Calvin, Crossway Classic Commentaries, p.229, emphasis mine)

This would be incorrect^^^^^