Single Christian Man

[FredBotswana]

I am a born again Christian man, 42 years of age, I have no child (because I never wanted a child out of wedlock), I have a Masters Degree, I am a corporate supervisor, also I have a thriving bus business and I don't drink or smoke. I wonder if I will ever find that God fearing woman that I will make my wife, I have prayed and fasted and nothing is happening, so I wonder if there is a chance that it will ever happen or I am going to turn 50 years like this. I don't allow the issue to make me sad brethrens , but sometimes I ask myself questions and get frustrated. It's not good for a man to be alone.

I can use your godly encouragements right now friends in Christ

 

[Lanolin]

Fear not you are not the last man on earth I am sure there are plenty of God fearing christian women you can 'make your wife' it just you are only allowed to pick one.

I would just say to men volunteer at a womens church conference as they are always having them and sometimes actually need a man at them to change the light bulbs, drive the bus, tell them what to do and help clean up and put the dishes away, take away the garbage etc.

 

[Lanolin]

also if most of the women at the church conference are already married just ask if they have any daughters Im sure they will arrange it for you like Naomi had done for Ruth.

 

[Lynx]

I am a born again Christian man, 42 years of age, I have no child (because I never wanted a child out of wedlock), I have a Masters Degree, I am a corporate supervisor, also I have a thriving bus business and I don't drink or smoke. I wonder if I will ever find that God fearing woman that I will make my wife, I have prayed and fasted and nothing is happening, so I wonder if there is a chance that it will ever happen or I am going to turn 50 years like this. I don't allow the issue to make me sad brethrens , but sometimes I ask myself questions and get frustrated. It's not good for a man to be alone.

I can use your godly encouragements right now friends in Christ

I'm 45 and in the same position. Never so much as been on a date.

I don't know how it works for you, but this is how it works for me. When I stopped wishing for something I don't have I started opening my eyes to what I do have. I've got a pretty sweet life.

 

[HealthAndHappiness]

I am a born again Christian man, 42 years of age, I have no child (because I never wanted a child out of wedlock), I have a Masters Degree, I am a corporate supervisor, also I have a thriving bus business and I don't drink or smoke. I wonder if I will ever find that God fearing woman that I will make my wife, I have prayed and fasted and nothing is happening, so I wonder if there is a chance that it will ever happen or I am going to turn 50 years like this. I don't allow the issue to make me sad brethrens , but sometimes I ask myself questions and get frustrated. It's not good for a man to be alone.

I can use your godly encouragements right now friends in Christ

Hi Fred From Botswana,

Is this your first time to Christian Chat?

 

[Lynx]

I am a born again Christian man, 42 years of age, I have no child (because I never wanted a child out of wedlock), I have a Masters Degree, I am a corporate supervisor, also I have a thriving bus business and I don't drink or smoke. I wonder if I will ever find that God fearing woman that I will make my wife, I have prayed and fasted and nothing is happening, so I wonder if there is a chance that it will ever happen or I am going to turn 50 years like this. I don't allow the issue to make me sad brethrens , but sometimes I ask myself questions and get frustrated. It's not good for a man to be alone.

I can use your godly encouragements right now friends in Christ

Also, howdy and welcome to the forum.

 

[Kireina]

Chances are she maybe right there around the corner already and your path and hers are gonna cross soon ☺️ Just keep trusting the Lord.


If that's the desire of your heart to find a godly woman you wanna spend the rest of your life.

You've waited for so long already...just wait a little more she will come into your life 🙏🏻❤️


God bless you and welcome to CC 🙏🏻

 

[FredBotswana]

Chances are she maybe right there around the corner already and your path and hers are gonna cross soon ☺️ Just keep trusting the Lord.


If that's the desire of your heart to find a godly woman you wanna spend the rest of your life.

You've waited for so long already...just wait a little more she will come into your life 🙏🏻❤️


God bless you and welcome to CC 🙏🏻

Thank you my sister. That's very encouraging

 

[FredBotswana]

Hi Fred From Botswana,

Is this your first time to Christian Chat?

No, it's not

 

[FredBotswana]

I'm 45 and in the same position. Never so much as been on a date.

I don't know how it works for you, but this is how it works for me. When I stopped wishing for something I don't have I started opening my eyes to what I do have. I've got a pretty sweet life.

Thanks for the reply. This is not a wish, as if like I am wishing for material things. This is a heart's desire. God said it's not good for a man to be alone, and I am in agreement. Psalm 20 says "May the God of grace give you your hearts desires". So i am not being soulish, I am based on what God says and what he promised me.

 

[FredBotswana]

Fear not you are not the last man on earth I am sure there are plenty of God fearing christian women you can 'make your wife' it just you are only allowed to pick one.

I would just say to men volunteer at a womens church conference as they are always having them and sometimes actually need a man at them to change the light bulbs, drive the bus, tell them what to do and help clean up and put the dishes away, take away the garbage etc.

Thanks for the advise, so in short I have to be visible in church, i have to be out there, Great.

 

[WMarkB]

I myself am 48 and have never married. I’m actually at peace and content with it being like this. Could that suddenly and unexpectedly change? Sure. I think the key is be at peace with your current situation and trust God’s timing.

 

[Lynx]

I myself am 48 and have never married. I’m actually at peace and content with it being like this. Could that suddenly and unexpectedly change? Sure. I think the key is be at peace with your current situation and trust God’s timing.

Howdy and welcome to the forum.

Ain't life great when you are content?!

 

[WMarkB]

Howdy and welcome to the forum.

Ain't life great when you are content?!

Five stars. Would recommend.

 

[Katkw]

I am a born again Christian man, 42 years of age, I have no child (because I never wanted a child out of wedlock), I have a Masters Degree, I am a corporate supervisor, also I have a thriving bus business and I don't drink or smoke. I wonder if I will ever find that God fearing woman that I will make my wife, I have prayed and fasted and nothing is happening, so I wonder if there is a chance that it will ever happen or I am going to turn 50 years like this. I don't allow the issue to make me sad brethrens , but sometimes I ask myself questions and get frustrated. It's not good for a man to be alone.

I can use your godly encouragements right now friends in Christ

If it is God's will then you will find your wife. I hope you do. Until then
try to enjoy your life you never know she may be just around the corner. Keep hope alive

 

[Hui1]

我是一个重生的基督徒，42岁，我没有孩子(因为我从不想要私生子)，我有硕士学位，我是一名公司主管，我的巴士生意蒸蒸日上，我不喝酒也不抽烟。我不知道我是否会找到那个敬畏上帝的女人，我会娶我为妻，我已经祈祷并禁食，但什么都没有发生，所以我想知道这是否有可能发生，或者我会像这样活到50岁。我不允许这个问题让我的兄弟们感到悲伤，但有时我会问自己问题并感到沮丧。男人一个人待着不好。

我现在可以使用你们敬虔的鼓励，基督里的朋友们

 

[Hui1]

耶稣基督是我的主是我的救主! 我爱上帝爱我主耶稣基督! 我是一个离异的单身女性基督徒! 事实上我一直都是独自一个人在跟随主耶稣基督的道路上前行，我有时很孤单，想要寻找一个在基督耶稣里和我一同前行的基督徒伴侣，但是我不知道上帝对我人生的旨意如何? 我想如果上帝有意为我预备一个基督徒丈夫，那么我就会遇见他! 我需要耐心等待属于我的基督徒丈夫! 我也在祷告神，求神让他快一点出现在我的生命中，我们一起努力，一起手牵手走完世上的路! 一起努力进入天国! 我在耐心等你我未来的基督徒丈夫，我不知道你是谁？ 你在哪里？ 你的种族肤色，你的年龄，我一无所知，但是我知道，上帝在为我预备! 感谢神！

 

[Lynx]

耶稣基督是我的主是我的救主! 我爱上帝爱我主耶稣基督! 我是一个离异的单身女性基督徒! 事实上我一直都是独自一个人在跟随主耶稣基督的道路上前行，我有时很孤单，想要寻找一个在基督耶稣里和我一同前行的基督徒伴侣，但是我不知道上帝对我人生的旨意如何? 我想如果上帝有意为我预备一个基督徒丈夫，那么我就会遇见他! 我需要耐心等待属于我的基督徒丈夫! 我也在祷告神，求神让他快一点出现在我的生命中，我们一起努力，一起手牵手走完世上的路! 一起努力进入天国! 我在耐心等你我未来的基督徒丈夫，我不知道你是谁？ 你在哪里？ 你的种族肤色，你的年龄，我一无所知，但是我知道，上帝在为我预备! 感谢神！

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Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior! I love God love my Lord Jesus Christ! I am a divorced single female Christian! In fact I have been walking alone on the path of following the Lord Jesus Christ , I am lonely at times and want to find a Christian partner to walk with me in Christ Jesus, but I don't know what is God's will for my life? I think if God intends for me to have a Christian husband, then I will meet him! I need to wait patiently for my Christian husband! I am also praying to God, asking God to let him appear in my life soon, and we will work together and walk through the world together hand in hand! Work hard to get into heaven! I'm waiting patiently for you my future Christian husband and I don't know who you are? Where are you? Your race, skin color, your age, I don't know anything, but I know, God is preparing for me! Thank God!

 

[Hui1]

嗨

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你好

 

[proutled]

I am a born again Christian man, 42 years of age, I have no child (because I never wanted a child out of wedlock), I have a Masters Degree, I am a corporate supervisor, also I have a thriving bus business and I don't drink or smoke. I wonder if I will ever find that God fearing woman that I will make my wife, I have prayed and fasted and nothing is happening, so I wonder if there is a chance that it will ever happen or I am going to turn 50 years like this. I don't allow the issue to make me sad brethrens , but sometimes I ask myself questions and get frustrated. It's not good for a man to be alone.

I can use your godly encouragements right now friends in Christ

HELLO FredBotswana, it sounds like you have it all, ok so here's the missing piece. are you walking in your calling. im not talking about making money, ,watch is fine, but are you walking in what God has called you to do? you took the right steps going to God, but were you asking the right question? so do some praying and see what he saying, ok, brother its all Good, your in a Good place, God bless,