You had good intentions but division is good when it comes to truth. Martin Luther never intended his 95 questions to divide the church. But it had to be done.
We can agree on much but in some areas the doctrines of some can be harmful to those who believe them.
Debate is good. Jesus and Paul can be seen as debating.
Love and truth are inseparable. If you love but tolerate what is unbiblical then we are no better than the unbelievers who can love.
God is love but He is also just, wise, all knowing, logical, and speaks the truth.
It was indeed the Jewish culture to debate. They even have a whole book called the Talmud which is a book of arguments, it contains thousands upon thousands of differing commentaries on the Torah and how its commandments should be carried out. Throughout history, rabbis have added to the Talmud, even rehashing the value and interpretation of earlier discussions, and reevaluating them in a modern context. (
https://blog.jewishcincinnati.org/j...h-tradition-9-ways-to-argue-but-with-respect/)