Wait - did you read the verses I included? They clearly say the elect are children of wrath until becoming justified by Christ.
You can't make it say otherwise just because you don't happen to like what they are telling us, or do you think them incorrect, or God didn't mean what He had Paul write?
Here the verses are again - do you see the "and were by nature the children of wrath, even as the others" part? The "even as the others" means, well, it means that however the "as the others" are, so are the elect until salvation, though being of the elect - they were "dead in sins".
[Eph 2:3-5 KJV]
3 Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
4 But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us,
5 Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved