"Orpah kissed her mother-in-law; but Ruth clave unto her." — Ruth 1:14

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Both of them had an affection for Naomi, and therefore set out with her upon her return to the land of Judah. But the hour of test came; Naomi most unselfishly set before each of them the trials which awaited them, and bade them if they cared for ease and comfort to return to their Moabitish friends.

At first both of them declared that they would cast in their lot with the Lord's people; but upon still further consideration Orpah with much grief and a respectful kiss left her mother in law, and her people, and her God, and went back to her idolatrous friends, while Ruth with all her heart gave herself up to the God of her mother in law.

It is one thing to love the ways of the Lord when all is fair, and quite another to cleave to them under all discouragements and difficulties. The kiss of outward profession is very cheap and easy, but the practical cleaving to the Lord, which must show itself in holy decision for truth and holiness, is not so small a matter. How stands the case with us, is our heart fixed upon Jesus, is the sacrifice bound with cords to the horns of the altar? Have we counted the cost, and are we solemnly ready to suffer all worldly loss for the Master's sake? The after gain will be an abundant recompense, for Egypt's treasures are not to be compared with the glory to be revealed.

Orpah is heard of no more; in glorious ease and idolatrous pleasure her life melts into the gloom of death; but Ruth lives in history and in heaven, for grace has placed her in the noble line whence sprung the King of kings. Blessed among women shall those be who for Christ's sake can renounce all; but forgotten and worse than forgotten shall those be who in the hour of temptation do violence to conscience and turn back unto the world. O that this morning we may not be content with the form of devotion, which may be no better than Orpah's kiss, but may the Holy Spirit work in us a cleaving of our whole heart to our Lord Jesus.

-Spurgeon
 

Moses_Young

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Whenever I read this thread title, I keep seeing "Oprah", rather than "Orpah".
 

Cameron143

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Whenever I read this thread title, I keep seeing "Oprah", rather than "Orpah".
I had that as my first reaction too. Btw...am going to miss the Santa hat. Or was that some misguided attempt at Where's Waldo?
 

Moses_Young

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I don't know if this has any significance, but "Orlah" (sounds similar to "Orpah" to me) means uncircumcised. And Orpah was the one who willingly/knowingly chose to be cut off from Israel.
 

Moses_Young

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I had that as my first reaction too. Btw...am going to miss the Santa hat. Or was that some misguided attempt at Where's Waldo?
Lol. Thanks. Maybe 'til next year? ;-)
 

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Both of them had an affection for Naomi, and therefore set out with her upon her return to the land of Judah. But the hour of test came; Naomi most unselfishly set before each of them the trials which awaited them, and bade them if they cared for ease and comfort to return to their Moabitish friends.

At first both of them declared that they would cast in their lot with the Lord's people; but upon still further consideration Orpah with much grief and a respectful kiss left her mother in law, and her people, and her God, and went back to her idolatrous friends, while Ruth with all her heart gave herself up to the God of her mother in law.

It is one thing to love the ways of the Lord when all is fair, and quite another to cleave to them under all discouragements and difficulties. The kiss of outward profession is very cheap and easy, but the practical cleaving to the Lord, which must show itself in holy decision for truth and holiness, is not so small a matter. How stands the case with us, is our heart fixed upon Jesus, is the sacrifice bound with cords to the horns of the altar? Have we counted the cost, and are we solemnly ready to suffer all worldly loss for the Master's sake? The after gain will be an abundant recompense, for Egypt's treasures are not to be compared with the glory to be revealed.

Orpah is heard of no more; in glorious ease and idolatrous pleasure her life melts into the gloom of death; but Ruth lives in history and in heaven, for grace has placed her in the noble line whence sprung the King of kings. Blessed among women shall those be who for Christ's sake can renounce all; but forgotten and worse than forgotten shall those be who in the hour of temptation do violence to conscience and turn back unto the world. O that this morning we may not be content with the form of devotion, which may be no better than Orpah's kiss, but may the Holy Spirit work in us a cleaving of our whole heart to our Lord Jesus.

-Spurgeon
I am thinking that this test is upon us all at this very time. May the LORD give us Wisdom, Mercy, a Vigilant spirit, Discernment, and Faithfulness. For without Him we can do nothing... Pray for the Saints.
 
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Very beautiful and eye opening post.
I too pray for myself as well as all the saints, may the Lord of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob keep us all from the hour of temptation.
May we follow our kings great example...." for the glory that was set before him he endured the cross".
 

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Both of them had an affection for Naomi, and therefore set out with her upon her return to the land of Judah. But the hour of test came; Naomi most unselfishly set before each of them the trials which awaited them, and bade them if they cared for ease and comfort to return to their Moabitish friends.

At first both of them declared that they would cast in their lot with the Lord's people; but upon still further consideration Orpah with much grief and a respectful kiss left her mother in law, and her people, and her God, and went back to her idolatrous friends, while Ruth with all her heart gave herself up to the God of her mother in law.

It is one thing to love the ways of the Lord when all is fair, and quite another to cleave to them under all discouragements and difficulties. The kiss of outward profession is very cheap and easy, but the practical cleaving to the Lord, which must show itself in holy decision for truth and holiness, is not so small a matter. How stands the case with us, is our heart fixed upon Jesus, is the sacrifice bound with cords to the horns of the altar? Have we counted the cost, and are we solemnly ready to suffer all worldly loss for the Master's sake? The after gain will be an abundant recompense, for Egypt's treasures are not to be compared with the glory to be revealed.

Orpah is heard of no more; in glorious ease and idolatrous pleasure her life melts into the gloom of death; but Ruth lives in history and in heaven, for grace has placed her in the noble line whence sprung the King of kings. Blessed among women shall those be who for Christ's sake can renounce all; but forgotten and worse than forgotten shall those be who in the hour of temptation do violence to conscience and turn back unto the world. O that this morning we may not be content with the form of devotion, which may be no better than Orpah's kiss, but may the Holy Spirit work in us a cleaving of our whole heart to our Lord Jesus.

-Spurgeon
This is an excellent insight. Thanks for sharing.
 
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Matthew 15
4For God commanded, saying, Honour thy father and mother: and, He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death.
 

Cameron143

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Matthew 15
4For God commanded, saying, Honour thy father and mother: and, He that curseth father or mother, let him die the death.
It's a great verse. What application are you making?
 
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Didn't Orpah return to her birth parents?
Naomi refers to Orpah as a daughter, but her biological mother was an idolater. Orpah made the wrong choice. She chose the wrong mother. Just my perspective on that.
 

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Naomi refers to Orpah as a daughter, but her biological mother was an idolater. Orpah made the wrong choice. She chose the wrong mother. Just my perspective on that.
I'm not arguing...just asking for clarification.
To me the choice isn't between parents but between God and the world. Much like with Lot's wife and how the children of Israel looked back to Egypt and not to God.
 
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I'm not arguing...just asking for clarification.
To me the choice isn't between parents but between God and the world. Much like with Lot's wife and how the children of Israel looked back to Egypt and not to God.
Ah okay I think understand your perspective :). For me, how we deal with the world is actually part of the way we choose God. I wouldn't return to my biological mother if I had a good spiritual mother like Naomi already, especially if my biological mother and their people were idolaters. From what I can see, Ruth was blessed for her choice and Orpah wasn't.