Should women pursue men?

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justahumanbeing

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Me again :giggle:

So what do you think about women pursuing men? Do you think its okay? Or is it out of place?

Nowadays in the world, its very normal for a woman to walk up to a man she's interested in and ask him out on a date or buy him a drink.

In my church, most of the brothers say they wouldn't mind a girl taking the first step. I personally can't, it won't come out naturally from me. I kind of freeze when I like someone and they're right in front of me lol

But then how should a woman show interest in a man without doing too much?

Too many questions... :LOL: But pls tell me what you think.
It's not uncommon. Just talk to the person, get to know him. Then you could ask him out, etc.

It depends from individual to individual. The difficult part is being honest about your feelings for the man. Once you're past that,it's all good.

All the best
 

Lanolin

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I think grown up tiggy is overrated, and I would chuck them out the library and ban them if I caught them doing it in there....
 

Sculpt

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I think grown up tiggy is overrated, and I would chuck them out the library and ban them if I caught them doing it in there....
One thing I learned about you from your posts over the years, Lanolin, is your rating for grown up tiggy is many fathoms less than zero. :)
 
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Me again :giggle:

So what do you think about women pursuing men? Do you think its okay? Or is it out of place?

Nowadays in the world, its very normal for a woman to walk up to a man she's interested in and ask him out on a date or buy him a drink.

In my church, most of the brothers say they wouldn't mind a girl taking the first step. I personally can't, it won't come out naturally from me. I kind of freeze when I like someone and they're right in front of me lol

But then how should a woman show interest in a man without doing too much?

Too many questions... :LOL: But pls tell me what you think.
I would like to say.. Go for it.
However, some men like to make the first move.