It has nothing to do with being offended or even forgiveness. The disfellowshipped person is forgiven. Its a matter setting boundaries, in hopes of correcting bad behavior.
what do you make of this type of stuff ?
“For
if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
Matthew 6:14-15 KJV
Is that true ? Or should we say that’s not grace because he’s telling his disciples what to do ? And what the result will be ?