I wish GOD had made match making easier and not guess work

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JohnB

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A good match, both peoples eyes would light up blue, a bad match their eyes would turn red. The better or worse the match, the deeper the color. Once married, the colors would disappear.
 

soberxp

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A good match, both peoples eyes would light up blue, a bad match their eyes would turn red. The better or worse the match, the deeper the color. Once married, the colors would disappear.
I think God really designed this function, that is, when you meet the person you love, you will have a strong warm feeling in your heart.

But perhaps for some reason, people do not believe this feeling, whether it is a unilateral feeling I'm not talking about people who love handsome men and beautiful women when they see them. They may not have that feeling. I don't know, only God knows. I think such a person is just a desire for the purpose of looking.
 

ResidentAlien

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A good match, both peoples eyes would light up blue, a bad match their eyes would turn red. The better or worse the match, the deeper the color. Once married, the colors would disappear.
Seriously John, you need to quit pining and dreaming and do something. If you want to find a wife get off this board and go find one.
 

Lucy-Pevensie

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This game is fun!! :love::love::love:

I wish God had made a land of chocolate and ice cream where no-matter how much you eat, you don't get fat.
 

Eli1

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You have to forgive the Church John so you’re free.
 
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This game is fun!! :love::love::love:

I wish God had made a land of chocolate and ice cream where no-matter how much you eat, you don't get fat.
hmmm....how about french fries and bacon and fresh bread? I think I'm a carb person :unsure:

actually there is not much I don't like :LOL:
 
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Why not just be single?lol If you think about it,everything Paul said made sense.A good marriage partner would be somebody you can share the word with.If you're thinking about the flesh,whats the point?Honestly the flesh sucks. :LOL:
 

JohnB

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Seriously John, you need to quit pining and dreaming and do something. If you want to find a wife get off this board and go find one.
Way too many marriages end in divorce. It would have been nice if GOD had set things up differently.
 

JohnB

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I think God really designed this function, that is, when you meet the person you love, you will have a strong warm feeling in your heart.

But perhaps for some reason, people do not believe this feeling, whether it is a unilateral feeling I'm not talking about people who love handsome men and beautiful women when they see them. They may not have that feeling. I don't know, only God knows. I think such a person is just a desire for the purpose of looking.
I think one thing that could have been done was to say no arranged marriages. GOD did say of the kings they should not marry for power.
 

JohnDB

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A good match, both peoples eyes would light up blue, a bad match their eyes would turn red. The better or worse the match, the deeper the color. Once married, the colors would disappear.
My eyes deceived me and I thought this was a horology thread. (Watch/clock making) and I got excited....

But nevermind...carry on.
 

Dino246

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Take the blue pill, and everyone (of the other gender) has blue eyes; take the red pill, and everyone's eyes are red.

See, it's not that hard!
 

ResidentAlien

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Way too many marriages end in divorce. It would have been nice if GOD had set things up differently.
I get it, you're here looking for someone to commiserate with. Man, life's too short. Enjoy your pity party.
 

Edify

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Way too many marriages end in divorce. It would have been nice if GOD had set things up differently.
What I see is that you want to change everything about God's plan you don't like. If you've never been married, there's usually a reason, & since you're older than most it's likely you.
 

Pilgrimshope

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A good match, both peoples eyes would light up blue, a bad match their eyes would turn red. The better or worse the match, the deeper the color. Once married, the colors would disappear.
maybe the lords plan involves you bieng single and deficating your heart and love to him more ?

Not insunuating you don’t already love god but just that maybe everyone doesn’t have the same plans ahead
 

Cameron143

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Way too many marriages end in divorce. It would have been nice if GOD had set things up differently.
This isn't a God problem but a people problem. And God doesn't do matchmaking or anything else by sight. It has always been required of God's people to walk by faith and not by sight. The reason is that sight doesn't require faith and without faith it is impossible to please God.
Try following Proverbs 3:5-6 and have your way guided by the Almighty.
 

JohnB

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My eyes deceived me and I thought this was a horology thread. (Watch/clock making) and I got excited....

But nevermind...carry on.
This isn't a God problem but a people problem. And God doesn't do matchmaking or anything else by sight. It has always been required of God's people to walk by faith and not by sight. The reason is that sight doesn't require faith and without faith it is impossible to please God.
Try following Proverbs 3:5-6 and have your way guided by the Almighty.
I've know people who have gotten married in the church of faith GOD was leading them. The marriage ended in divorce.
 

JohnB

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maybe the lords plan involves you bieng single and deficating your heart and love to him more ?

Not insunuating you don’t already love god but just that maybe everyone doesn’t have the same plans ahead
I do not have any desire to be single.
 

JohnB

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What I see is that you want to change everything about God's plan you don't like. If you've never been married, there's usually a reason, & since you're older than most it's likely you.
I guess the fact that Abraham didn't have his son until he was 99, was his problem.