Without hope

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oyster67

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I feel like I'm rejected by God almighty himself n he depart from me months ago n yet I still didn't listen n obey n ignoring the holy spirit n rejecting God. I can't even cry or repent its has be come impossible I feel no empathy n remore or conviction n no happiness no emotions like a zombie. My heart has became stone hardened 2 the maximum. No way out for me it's a wrap.
It's not about what we can do, it's about what He can do. He is God. He can do anything.

Do you know what He wants to do? I know.

Do you know why He wants to do it? I know that too.

I know the things because He wrote a letter to me and told me. That letter is addressed to you also.

He told us that He has made a wonderful home for us and wants to take us there and live with us forever.

The most wonderful thing of all is the 'why' of it.

He loves us. He doesn't care about our past. He only cares about our future.

Isaiah 55:1

“Ho, every one that thirsteth, come ye to the waters, and he that hath no money; come ye, buy, and eat; yea, come, buy wine and milk without money and without price.”
 

Alisha86

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in John Bunyan's "Pilgrim's Progress", there is a scene where some people are hanging from a gallows, sentenced to death for a sin. Pilgrim asks Evangelist, "Could they not have been forgiven?" Evangelist replies, "They did not ask".

God's word tells us that God will never leave us or forsake us. (Hebrews 13:5) He remains faithful even when we are not. (2 Timothy 2:13)
You are accepting Satan's lies. Feelings are as changeable as the weather. God does not change (Malachi 3:6)

Whatever your sin, be it doubt and unbelief or anything else, confess it. Do it out loud. Yes, the root of all sin is disobedience. Confess that as sin also. Then accept God's forgiveness. You are not worthy. So what? No one is worthy of forgiveness. God loves you. Satan is the destroyer, Jesus came that you might have life. Let God's word flood you and reassure you of His love.

Conviction is not a feeling. Don't try to "feel" convicted. All you need to do is admit that you are wrong. That's all God waits for. Read Psalm 51 and make that your prayer.
I don't know about that
 

Bingo

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I feel like I'm rejected by God almighty himself n he depart from me months ago n yet I still didn't listen n obey n ignoring the holy spirit n rejecting God. I can't even cry or repent its has be come impossible I feel no empathy n remore or conviction n no happiness no emotions like a zombie. My heart has became stone hardened 2 the maximum. No way out for me it's a wrap.

"I Am a friend that has come to help lift you up."
"This was my personal spiritual awakening over two decades ago when my life was out of control

and thought I had no hope. Often at our worst times, the Holy Spirit... (God's presence) comes upon us
in a miraculous 'happening'.


"Circumstances in one's life often brings cause of unnecessary distraught, often being grief, resentments,
jealousy and selfishness. I learned I had to confront myself with a serious inventory of my shortcomings and
accept things I couldn't change, and to change the things I could, and that being my attitude and conduct."


"With tears I poured my heart out to my 'Higher Power' for forgiveness and made a commitment to put my life
in His care. PRAISE GOD! It works so long as I work at being a better person and earnestly strive to live my life
according to His principles of life, that being of goodness, kindness etc. and love with gentle understanding
of those around me. Make no mistake, it is not meant to be easy, but I have learned with perseverance I have
found some harmony in troubling times."


"The Holy Spirit never leaves us, but often one goes away from this God consciousness of the Holy Spirit.
I have shared my spiritual journey for several years, and I Am here to share with you, in hopes of lifting you
up out of this cold heart syndrome, by the grace of God...it may come to be, a new beginning."


"Praise God"

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CharliRenee

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#48
Hi Alisha, thinking about you. How are you today. Still praying.
 

tourist

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#49
With God, not only is there hope, but His blessed assured hope. Sounds like you are in a bit of a dry spell. I have been where you are now. I will say a prayer for God to remove the cloud of despair that is hovering over you. Glad to have you join our community. Welcome to CC.
 

gt4awd

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Prayed for you Alisha just now. In the name of the father, son, and holy spirit. It seems as though you don't want to forgive yourself. Please start new there.
 

Alisha86

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Prayed for you Alisha just now. In the name of the father, son, and holy spirit. It seems as though you don't want to forgive yourself. Please start new there.
I see
 

SteveEpperson

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I don't know if that will help 😕
I'm here to tell you it will!

Read this story from John chapter 8:

Jesus returned to the Mount of Olives, 2 but early the next morning he was back again at the Temple. A crowd soon gathered, and he sat down and taught them. 3 As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

4 “Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

6 They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.

9 When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

11 “No, Lord,” she said.

And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Isn't that amazing? Jesus forgives everyone, including you and me.

One more, then I will leave you alone. This is a story you'll find when we step back a few chapters in John 4:

4 Now Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that he was gaining and baptizing more disciples than John— 2 although in fact it was not Jesus who baptized, but his disciples. 3 So he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee.

4 Now he had to go through Samaria. 5 So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon.

7 When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?” 8 (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)

9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.[a])

10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”

11 “Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his livestock?”

13 Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”

15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.”

16 He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.”

17 “I have no husband,” she replied.

Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. 18 The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.”

19 “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”

21 “Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”

25 The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.”

26 Then Jesus declared, “I, the one speaking to you—I am he.”

Although these two stories involved women, I can't help but relate to both. I have to report that since I have received Christ, the same way the woman in the second story did, I often draw from the well of living water. I confess my sins daily, and Jesus is faithful and just to forgive.

Try it for yourself. Get alone and think of something you did recently that God would disapprove of. Then ask Jesus to forgive you for it. Do this every day for the next seven days and see if you don't notice God's presence.

I will pray for you as well.
 

SteveEpperson

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#55
I think u can lose ur salvation. God could reach a point where he run out of patience with some1.
Not true!

King David, a man after God's own heart, committed adultery with another man's wife and then sent her husband to the front lines to be killed. God forgave him!

A guy named William Fay was once the CEO of a large corporation with ties to the mafia. He also ran one of the largest prostitution houses in the US. He was wealthy and connected.

After receiving Christ, things began to change immediately for him. He became so involved with sharing the Gospel he now has become a leading authority on evangelism in the US. He has written several books and has a comprehensive course on how Christians can share their faith without fear.

I was 12 when I gave my life to Christ. I am now 59 and still sin, albeit a little differently now. It hurts me more, and I am more sensitive to it.

The point is that although you can backslide into disobedience, you cannot lose your salvation. God won't allow that.

The fact that you seem to be torn up about your sin and the way your life is going right now is a good sign. It means the Holy Spirit is working on you. It's now time to surrender and let God take over completely.
 

Alisha86

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Jun 21, 2022
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#56
I'm here to tell you it will!

Read this story from John chapter 8:

Jesus returned to the Mount of Olives, 2 but early the next morning he was back again at the Temple. A crowd soon gathered, and he sat down and taught them. 3 As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

4 “Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

6 They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.

9 When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

11 “No, Lord,” she said.

And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Isn't that amazing? Jesus forgives everyone, including you and me.

One more, then I will leave you alone. This is a story you'll find when we step back a few chapters in John 4:

4 Now Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that he was gaining and baptizing more disciples than John— 2 although in fact it was not Jesus who baptized, but his disciples. 3 So he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee.

4 Now he had to go through Samaria. 5 So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon.

7 When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?” 8 (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)

9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.[a])

10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”

11 “Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his livestock?”

13 Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”

15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.”

16 He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.”

17 “I have no husband,” she replied.

Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. 18 The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.”

19 “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”

21 “Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”

25 The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.”

26 Then Jesus declared, “I, the one speaking to you—I am he.”

Although these two stories involved women, I can't help but relate to both. I have to report that since I have received Christ, the same way the woman in the second story did, I often draw from the well of living water. I confess my sins daily, and Jesus is faithful and just to forgive.

Try it for yourself. Get alone and think of something you did recently that God would disapprove of. Then ask Jesus to forgive you for it. Do this every day for the next seven days and see if you don't notice God's presence.

I will pray for you as well.
Ok
 

Gideon300

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I don't know about that
You have a choice. Believe God's word, which is Truth, or your feelings. Feelings are a foundation of sand and anything built on them will fall. Real faith is based on facts. Satan's first trick with Eve was to cast doubt on God's word. He did the same to Jesus - "If you are the Son of God........"

Read the gospel of John. Read it until you believe it to the point that it is real to you. You'll be able to tell. Ask God to speak to you through His word. He's more willing to speak than we are to listen. Thank God for salvation even if you feel nothing.
 

Evmur

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#58
I feel like I'm rejected by God almighty himself n he depart from me months ago n yet I still didn't listen n obey n ignoring the holy spirit n rejecting God. I can't even cry or repent its has be come impossible I feel no empathy n remore or conviction n no happiness no emotions like a zombie. My heart has became stone hardened 2 the maximum. No way out for me it's a wrap.
don't go by feelings ... clap your hands and praise Him.

I remember times when I felt like that and I thought well at least other people are saved and happy ... that cheered me up a little.
 
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I feel like I'm rejected by God almighty himself n he depart from me months ago n yet I still didn't listen n obey n ignoring the holy spirit n rejecting God. I can't even cry or repent its has be come impossible I feel no empathy n remore or conviction n no happiness no emotions like a zombie. My heart has became stone hardened 2 the maximum. No way out for me it's a wrap.
I do not know the fullness of your belief, friend, but as you menton 'God' and i did not hear any mention of His "...beloved Son": the Lord Jesus, I thought to share with you John 14:6 and also John 17; Romans 8; and 1 Jn. 5:10-13 in our Holy Bible. That is the essence of salvation, peace, and blessing for all eternity in Heaven, of those who embrace that truth. I suggest you read this counsel and then go into ...'your closet' as God says; (a private place) and speak to the Lord. We MUST possess the Savior to have any entrance into Heaven, and blessings here on earth.
I will be praying for you, friend!
-1ambassador.
 

Alisha86

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I do not know the fullness of your belief, friend, but as you menton 'God' and i did not hear any mention of His "...beloved Son": the Lord Jesus, I thought to share with you John 14:6 and also John 17; Romans 8; and 1 Jn. 5:10-13 in our Holy Bible. That is the essence of salvation, peace, and blessing for all eternity in Heaven, of those who embrace that truth. I suggest you read this counsel and then go into ...'your closet' as God says; (a private place) and speak to the Lord. We MUST possess the Savior to have any entrance into Heaven, and blessings here on earth.
I will be praying for you, friend!
-1ambassador.
Thanks