Far too many of God's born again children have been indoctrinated with the misinterpretation of scriptures, and when that happens it is very hard for them to change their minds.
I am guessing that you pulled the word "perish" from 2 Pet 3:9. Parish = death = separation.
2 Pet 1:1 tells us who Peter is directing this warning to, and it is to them that have obtained like precious faith. Peter even includes himself in this warning by using the word "USWARD". and calls them "beloved" in verse 9.
Peter's warning to them is that when they have been tempted, and yield to that temptation, that they should repent. When a child of God commits a sin, he perishes, separating himself from his fellowship with God, temporary, until he repents.
Just tossing this out there since a new accuser of the brethren is parroting his predecessors in accusing Calvinism, while adamantly cherry picking scripture to abrogate scripture, like his predecessors.
Has it occurred to you that what we're encountering in some, not necessarily in all though it is possible, are not those who respect the scripture at all. But are committed to gaining enjoyment watching us repeat ourselves in what they know is a fruitless effort to reach them with scripture.
Arrogance on our part because we don't lead anyone to understanding. What we are doing and are admonished to do for those in the church who are not in correct understanding is to guide to correction. As the spirit leads us and thus leads them to right understanding.
And those dark ones are here to mock and bait as they corrupt the word and gain enjoyment watching us,like hamsters on a wheel, repeat our same behaviors expecting a different result. I.E they'll change their mind to realize the truth.
But that's not why they're here. They're here serving, unbeknownst to them, to prove the scripture truth by their repeated dark intent.
I lurked in a forum years ago where the topic of women pastors was started by someone who later admitted they did so just to watch their women members get emotional for being told God doesn't call them to preach.
Brother, you've a good heart.💕😊🕊️✝️📖 You need realize there are wolves crept in among the sheep. And they all sound alike when they howl. Posting styles are easy to spot.🐺👹 Especially among those who laugh at righteous scripture. And dare call God a liar.