Unrealistic Expectations

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TabinRivCA said:
Well I hope you didn't give up so easily, I would think there's gals around that would enjoy your company. Just don't morph into monster mode, lol.
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Well that's very kind of you. I hardly gave up, but I kept running into the same nonsense. I have not been on a bonafide date with a Christian woman since March 2011. So, I haven't given up, but it seems it has given up on me.
 
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Gojira said:
Well that's very kind of you. I hardly gave up, but I kept running into the same nonsense. I have not been on a bonafide date with a Christian woman since March 2011. So, I haven't given up, but it seems it has given up on me.
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Maybe if you had a pic of Barney instead of Godzilla?
 
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TheNarrowPath said:
Maybe if you had a pic of Barney instead of Godzilla?
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Well, a) this is not the only place I talk with Christian females, and b) I've only been on here since last fall, not March of 2011. So I don't think that's it. Besides, any woman who has a Barney fettish probably isn't right for me :D

And oh, there's a thread in the Singles section in which I posted about 8 pics of my human self.
 
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TheNarrowPath said:
Maybe if you had a pic of Barney instead of Godzilla?
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or a smiling photo lol
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Gojira said:
Well, a) this is not the only place I talk with Christian females, and b) I've only been on here since last fall, not March of 2011. So I don't think that's it. Besides, any woman who has a Barney fettish probably isn't right for me :D

And oh, there's a thread in the Singles section in which I posted about 8 pics of my human self.
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Oh really? Mind you all these forums are starting to blur for me and Im new here.🤣
 
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Unrealistic expectations from women....Okay how about everytime one has told not just me but any man
to get in touch with feminine side. Men are meant to act like men. You don't really ever see men telling women to get in touch with their masculine side or having those kinds of expectations because in most cases it's a turn off.
 
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G00WZ said:
Unrealistic expectations from women....Okay how about everytime one has told not just me but any man
to get in touch with feminine side. Men are meant to act like men. You don't really ever see men telling women to get in touch with their masculine side or having those kinds of expectations because in most cases it's a turn off.
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I caught my feminine side out behind the shed talking about trying on pantyhose, so I clubbed him over the head. I don't have to worry about no feminine side no more.
 
Why’s men so ‘fraid of their feminine side? A feminine side could just mean that men would simply say “I understand how you feel.” Even though they don’t.😀
 
Real men don't lie.

However I do try to understand how they feel. I don't always succeed, but I try. Sometimes they can explain it in a way I can understand it.
 
jennymae said:
Why’s men so ‘fraid of their feminine side? A feminine side could just mean that men would simply say “I understand how you feel.” Even though they don’t.😀
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A mans leading default is in how he thinks/logic, women by default tend to lead by feel/emotion... If you don't believe me start a conversation with a man with a topic like "how do you feel about the color green". He's going to give you a short 5 second logical base answer while a woman might respond with a whole a childhood experience and then go on to talk about how she feels about 30 other types of green that she saw on a color pannel in a Bed Bath and Beyond.

I wouldn't say it's fear, it's just not how typical men are wired.
 
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