On reading the bible on a daily. Its a real struggle and Im trying to declutter the house and the mind to have clear space for Him.
Hi TNP. Welcome to Christian Chat.
I've found God to be gracious towards me over the years, in that He has given me an understanding of His ways as and when it bore relevance to a situation in my life, as well as other times. That understanding may not have specifically been related to something happening to me personally, but may be about something someone I know has had trouble dealing with. For sure, He also imparts an understanding of His ways to us to prepare us for the future.
Every person whose spirit is alive to things of God, ie that has been born again, has been given the Holy Spirit to indwell them, and it is He that will teach and counsel the believer in God's ways. The Holy Spirit certainly refers me to scripture when He is teaching me, and some of that is recorded in the Books of the Old Testament as well as the New. I've read the old and new testaments over and over many times, because I took to heart the fact that it is the inspired word of God.
For a new Christian, or one that is struggling with how to bring God's ways into their own lives, I personally recommend they read the NASB 1995 version of the Bible (Bible Gateway has this available to be read online), and read from John's gospel through to the end of Jude's letter, and don't worry about reading the Book of Revelations for now. Go back over, repeating the read from John's gospel through to end of Jude's letter again. There's enough in those books to reveal Jesus and all His ways to you. It doesn't matter how much you read in one 'sitting', take your time, don't rush. Give yourself time to 'hear' what you are reading. You will get understanding from the Holy Spirit as you read, but He will also bring thoughts to you at other opportune times throughout your days.
By all means, eventually do your best to read the whole Bible from cover to cover, you will find that all scripture is beneficial to your spiritual development and Christian lifestyle. Also, find people that appear to have a deep knowledge of God's ways that you chat to. In your case, a mature thinking Christian lady you can trust would be ideal, and ask their opinion on the meaning of scriptures if you are having difficulty understanding them. Such a person won't be argumentative, or combative, but measured and peaceful in their communication style.
Don't be anxious, and rest in the fact that if we earnestly seek after God and His ways, He will not leave us ignorant. That's His promise.
I don't say I have a full knowledge of God and His ways, that would be arrogant and foolish of me. But I have been put through many 'mills' over the years, so if you have any questions that you can't find help for elsewhere, feel free to PM me. If appropriate I will refer you over to a sister to answer your question. Shalom, Tony 🙂