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That is one of my favorite books of the bible. The following is my favorite passage.
Song of Solomon 2:10-12 KJV
My beloved spake, and said unto me,
"Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away.
For lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone.
The flowers appear on the earth,
The time of the singing of birds is come,
And the voice of the turtle is heard in our land."
takes too long to get approval of new threads.
Sinpler to just add to existing.
OR maybe it just my new threads that take time !
OH well.....
My tip and hint is that if you see a woman that interests you and is single and available that you take the initiative and introduce yourself. Don't be tentative and sit on the sidelines and watching the world go by.
Actually, I created such a thread years ago. It is called Rules Of Engagement.
Well sadly i dont know who is AVAILABLE. so i guess.
sadly i introduced my self and no one is interested after a few reads of my posts.
So i guess i not very good at this that is why i asked for tips and hints.
Seems to me that you are doing the right things here on this site. You just have yet to connect with that special one of your hearts desire.
ok found tourists thread
Text in read is his rules
Text in blue is my responses from whom i am
Have no fear of rejection.
This i have no control over. rejection terrifies me. prayer i have done. awaiting a change
Develop a tolerance for pain as you may end up with a broken heart. Be strong for you will survive. Life will go on.
only the strong can bears pain. the weak are needing support
Faint heart does not win fair woman.
and this is why i end up choosing badly. i am not a self confident perosn and i cant fake it
Marry only for love.
totaslly agree. sadly this is hard to find
Pay attention to detail.
I miss these things as my Asperges syndrom is not good at social things. i see detail in the world. just not in peoples responses.
Accept the woman for who she is at this moment. Positive refinement comes only from God over a long period of time.
This i always do, i dont aim to change the girl i fall in love with. that is why i fell in love with the person
I must be willing to accept God's discipline for my own positive change that she may find appealing.
Yes God disciplines me lots.
Be patient but let your resolve be resolute.
I try to be patient but loneliness eats me away. i am like Adam. it is not good for me to be alone
Pursue with wild abandon in your heart. Do not hold back.
Sadly most women i like dont like me to tell them all that wild abandonment i feel about them, they dont think i can fall for them until i know everything about them
Never settle for second best or someone else's hand-me-downs
never dated a girl who has never had a relationship before so i am only getting hand me downs. also i only married non christian as i wasnt able to attract the girl i wanted.
Do not date for the purpose of having a one-night-stand, as that is vanity and pointless.
Not once in my life have i had a one night stand. totally agree
Do not pursue anyone that you would not consider marrying. Do not waste your time.
Totally agree.
Offer only the best that has been provided by God. Do not lie. Be honest in all things.
Lies work best sadly . but i just cant do it. Girls seem to like to hear the stories rather than the facts. i hope to find one that isnt attracted to the man that speak the best.
Her feelings are more important than my own desires.
Correct. i jsut wish she would share those feelings
I do not believe in long, protracted engagements. Either you know what you want or you don't.
Agree i know very quickly if i am interested and once interested want to move to next phase.
Play for keeps or get out of the game. This game is for serious players only and not the timid.
Again agree. i am open about what i want i dont play games
All is fair in love and war.
This i dont agree with. Fair is what God calls fair, not what man decides.
Text in read is his rules
Text in blue is my responses from whom i am
Have no fear of rejection.
This i have no control over. rejection terrifies me. prayer i have done. awaiting a change
Develop a tolerance for pain as you may end up with a broken heart. Be strong for you will survive. Life will go on.
only the strong can bears pain. the weak are needing support
Faint heart does not win fair woman.
and this is why i end up choosing badly. i am not a self confident perosn and i cant fake it
Marry only for love.
totaslly agree. sadly this is hard to find
Pay attention to detail.
I miss these things as my Asperges syndrom is not good at social things. i see detail in the world. just not in peoples responses.
Accept the woman for who she is at this moment. Positive refinement comes only from God over a long period of time.
This i always do, i dont aim to change the girl i fall in love with. that is why i fell in love with the person
I must be willing to accept God's discipline for my own positive change that she may find appealing.
Yes God disciplines me lots.
Be patient but let your resolve be resolute.
I try to be patient but loneliness eats me away. i am like Adam. it is not good for me to be alone
Pursue with wild abandon in your heart. Do not hold back.
Sadly most women i like dont like me to tell them all that wild abandonment i feel about them, they dont think i can fall for them until i know everything about them
Never settle for second best or someone else's hand-me-downs
never dated a girl who has never had a relationship before so i am only getting hand me downs. also i only married non christian as i wasnt able to attract the girl i wanted.
Do not date for the purpose of having a one-night-stand, as that is vanity and pointless.
Not once in my life have i had a one night stand. totally agree
Do not pursue anyone that you would not consider marrying. Do not waste your time.
Totally agree.
Offer only the best that has been provided by God. Do not lie. Be honest in all things.
Lies work best sadly . but i just cant do it. Girls seem to like to hear the stories rather than the facts. i hope to find one that isnt attracted to the man that speak the best.
Her feelings are more important than my own desires.
Correct. i jsut wish she would share those feelings
I do not believe in long, protracted engagements. Either you know what you want or you don't.
Agree i know very quickly if i am interested and once interested want to move to next phase.
Play for keeps or get out of the game. This game is for serious players only and not the timid.
Again agree. i am open about what i want i dont play games
All is fair in love and war.
This i dont agree with. Fair is what God calls fair, not what man decides.
my hearts desire i met. i wasnt her hearts desire. so i am still here seeking
Keep seeking. I found my wife here on this site who is also a member shortly after I joined.
