Yeah.... I've heard that as well. Also, "if you prayed to receive the Spirit, and didn't start speaking in tongues, you either (a) didn't pray hard enough, or (b) you weren't 'sincere' enough"
It's a pretty easy fall-back position.
and, if that is the case, then why does Paul say in Corinthians.... "22 So then, tongues are for a sign, not to those who believe but to unbelievers; "
God searches and knows our hearts. Many people are praying in unbelief, seeking evidence from God and HE will not grant them their desire since it is not in faith according to His word.
The churches today are not the churches that were first born in Acts where the word of the Apostles was received in faith.
Even then there were only a few who would believe because "God added daily to the church
such as should be saved."
Which HE has never stopped saving people = daily, amen.
The Holy Spirit does not subject Himself to be placed on trial for religious speculation and argument.
However, when men attack the Word of Truth, the LORD speaks thru us to counter the false accusations just as Stephen did.
Stephen who was Baptized in the Holy Spirit was murdered with the consent of Saul of Tarsus who would later fall on his face before the LORD and then be Baptized in the Holy Spirit and thru this HE became the Apostle Paul and not one aspect apart from BOTH.
The Baptism of the Holy Spirit was foretold of in Genesis, Isaiah, the Gospel and is a Irrevocable Promise from the Father.
"Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning"