The ONLY thing you can control in life are YOUR choices, sister.
If you want friends, ask yourself, "What kind of friends do I want?" Then ask yourself what kind of friends THEY would want... that's the kind of character YOU need to have to attract people like that. ;D
You want loyalty from others? Be loyal. You want compassion from others? Be compassionate. You won't get good things back from most people... but you will start to attract some others who exemplify these things themselves.
This requires divine guidance to do. God Himself loved His enemies enough to send us Jesus Christ.