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Paul discourages us from emulating one another, but to be ourselves.
I wonder what you have in mind. I cannot think of anything along these lines in the Pauline epistles or in Acts. He talked about different gifts and different body parts. That is the closest thing I can think of. Paul wrote, 'Be imitators of me as I am of Christ." Peter said for elders to be examples to the flock. Paul told Timothy to be an example.
Some have an innate need to prove to all who will listen that they are right...until they have accomplished this, they just won't shut up.
I didn't mean you. LolYou took my words and twisted my meaning. We are certainly to imitate those who are more spiritual, but we are certainly not to be them because we are not them. Jesus is Jesus, Paul is Paul, Peter is Peter, we cannot be these men. When God speaks to my spirit, He calls me by my name, not by another name. I am not Jesus. When Jesus spoke to me in dreams and visions, He spoke to me directly, not to Himself and not to another. My soul is not the soul of Billy Graham, or Billy Sunday, or Franklin Walden, these men have their own personalities and I am certainly not these great men at all. I am a unique soul, as every person on the face of the earth, past present and future.
Oops! Never mind. I just got in from grocery shopping and I think I'm pain-drunk! Lol Fell on your face...only once? Oh, man, you must be smarter than me! That doesn't surprise me! LolVery well spoken. I’ve met men like this. First, it was certainly myself. I was grateful to the LORD to have tripped and fell and my face met the floor. Knowledge puffeth up, but charity edifieth. Far better to show mercy than to stand there like a proud peacock when someone is hungry we are standing there demanding they look like a Christian. I’ve seen it myself and was ashamed at my conduct. I was a judgemental person, I am grateful the Holy Ghost took me aside and slid that two edged sword up my spine and He wasn’t delicate let me tell you, but It was what the doctor ordered. I see so many people write their stuff on here and it’s the wrong spirit, but they can’t help themselves, I’ve been there. I just ask the LORD to see if they can fall flat on their face and touch dirt and see that we are absolutely nothing without Him.
You took my words and twisted my meaning. We are certainly to imitate those who are more spiritual, but we are certainly not to be them because we are not them. Jesus is Jesus, Paul is Paul, Peter is Peter, we cannot be these men. When God speaks to my spirit, He calls me by my name, not by another name. I am not Jesus. When Jesus spoke to me in dreams and visions, He spoke to me directly, not to Himself and not to another. My soul is not the soul of Billy Graham, or Billy Sunday, or Franklin Walden, these men have their own personalities and I am certainly not these great men at all. I am a unique soul, as every person on the face of the iearth, past present and future.
I did not reword whst you said so I don't see where you get the idea that I twisted something. You also did not show me tge 'be yourself' verses in the Bible.You took my words and twisted my meaning. We are certainly to imitate those who are more spiritual, but we are certainly not to be them because we are not them. Jesus is Jesus, Paul is Paul, Peter is Peter, we cannot be these men. When God speaks to my spirit, He calls me by my name, not by another name. I am not Jesus. When Jesus spoke to me in dreams and visions, He spoke to me directly, not to Himself and not to another. My soul is not the soul of Billy Graham, or Billy Sunday, or Franklin Walden, these men have their own personalities and I am certainly not these great men at all. I am a unique soul, as every person on the face of the earth, past present and future.
How are you brother? you have not posted in a while ... thinking of you.If you actually prayed that my cancer might be healed, I appreciate it. And thus I should let you know that I just received my new PSA count and it has dropped from 10.1 to a 1.4, which is "normal - low."
I [have] prayed that God would heal me of this disease, but what is more important is that I surrender to Him to be used as He pleases. My body does not belong to me, for it belongs to Him alone. I am not my own anymore; bought and purchased. So, if the Lord has healed me . . . I am not surprised at all. I have felt the Raw, Almighty Power of God, and thus I know that absolutely anything is possible for him.
Again, thank you. I thought that you should know since you have offered your prayer.
David
Thank you for this. I too am not afraid to speak what is actually written. I was reading today about God telling Isaiah to walk around for 3 years absolutely bare naked and barefoot. Or of one of the prophets where God tells him to marry a harlot and have sex with her. Is what is written means that it’s acceptable? Certainly not.
But that of Jonathan and David, I admire that kind of love between two men that is so strong that it “passes the love of women”. Gone are those days, and everything is a handshake. God forbid that we should show any kind of a affection toward a man. But, brethren get on the righteous bandwagon and classify any type of male affection toward a man to be sexual. Of course it’s about being labeled a queer. I gave up that idea long ago. I am an affectionate man and It doesn’t bother me one iota what men think. I won’t allow myself to be limited to that type of thinking. We should have more David and Johnathan’s and not afraid to say to another man affectionately (not sexually) and not attaching the word “brother“ to make it sound “safe”, but to say, “I love you”.
Someday we may find ourselves in a cold place perhaps being hunted down, and on one of those cold nights, sharing bodily heat might just keep us alive to live another day. If that is too freaky, we need to get beyond ourselves and act more like John who laid his head on Jesus chest.
Thank you poster for expanding your mind and your understanding.
I am reading both your posts and the other posters posts, and I so far, at least on page 15 of this thread, I am not reading that your “opponent” is stating that he is endorsing “Sodomy”. I am reading your posts too, but it’s like I am reading the same argument.
When Mom is telling me a point of view, I come back with a rebuttal explaining the same thing. She always comes back with, “didn’t I just say that?”. It’s how I heard her and then again, I really didn’t hear at all.
I will go back to the beginning and see if your “opponent” is stating his support for “gay s-x”.
Thank you
I'm concerned with where I think your thread may be headed so I'm approving it just to satisfy my curiosity.
I do NOT support the LGBTQ activism and their agenda and I believe same-sex marriage is a perversion of marriage and placing orphans with gay couples is disgusting. Yet I will not tell a Christian brother that he sins for the simple act of a sexual expression with a willing male friend in private.
The experience of a long life, and studies in psychology and the research into such matters; causes me to be highly suspicious of the homophobic types,
Few males are 100% solely opposite sex attracted in all times and circumstances of their life and men of integrity know it in their heart, yet few of us risk making that statement. I'm 80 so I don't care. LOL
Hello AworkinProgress! I have a couple comments I wish to make in reply. It is true that even words of Satan are in the Scriptures, it is true that Satan said it, but not true it is for us to follow. Yet, the story of Jonathan and David for centuries has been seen as the pinnacle of male to male friendship. I've seen it stated this was an example of the highest form of love as expressed by I believe, Aristotle, it is the highest love where it seems to be one soul inhabiting two bodies. What I find surprising is how Christians for centuries have lauded this love between Jonathan and David so highly, until it seems that there was an erotic element to it, then it became unacceptable.![]()
You were challenged about your comment that Paul taught that we are individuals, and I understand Paul that way as well. Often in Scripture, a truth, a biblical fact is stated that is basic in meaning, but Paul uses it in a particular context to make a point. I think of two:
"Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why didst thou make me thus? Or hath not the potter a right over the clay, from the same lump to make one part a vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour?" (Rom 9:20-21, ERV)
I have a close friend who came to North America from China. He was shocked at the wickedness he saw in the west because his idea of America was "Father Knows Best" and "Leave it to Beaver" imagery. Yet, he laughed telling me that even in China it was not at all strange for two male friends to walk down the street holding hands and it did not mean they were gay.
As a side note, he was born again in a secret house church just prior to leaving China for America. He was over a thousand miles from me here, but God gave me the honor and privilege of helping him find a church where he could learn the faith. This is an example where a "Confessional Church" is important and I found him a newly forming Presbyterian Church (PCA) with a Pastor who was a man of God's love and it was almost within walking distance to him. If I'd have found a Baptist Church seriously embracing either the First or Second London Confession of Faith; convenient for him I'd have guided him there.
The Bible has no Hebrew or Greek words comparable to our "homosexual" or "heterosexual".
Even the word "sodomy" is nowhere to be found in the English translations. The KJV & RV use "sodomites" to represent male cult prostitutes in the OT and the KJV margin note on Deut. 23:17 reads: "whore: or, sodomitess". Both are cult prostitutes. Many modern translations use "sodomite" to translate the Greek arsenokoites in 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim.1:10 and in the modern meaning of "sodomite", which is NOT synonymous with "homosexual", it is an accurate one word translation. That also happens to match the KJV translation phrasing, if you use the 1828 Webster's to define the words.
My initial post, the OP emphatically pointed out that since the Bible does not have our modern word and concept, you have to get off your backside and do some study to see exactly what the sinful act is that is being condemned in the few passages used by many to condemn any and all male to male sexual expression.
There is NO passage for the Christian believer, the New Covenant believer; that condemns simple sexual conduct between two male friends.
The idea of the whacky fundamentalists that we choose which gender we are attracted to is absurd.
Who on earth would make that choice?
The other idea that it is not a sin to be a homosexual, just a sin to engage in a homosexual act is the sin. That contradicts the teaching of Jesus that to desire or lust for something sinful, is a sin also, not just the act.
The idea that total, lifetime abstinence from sex is demanded of a male who is solely attracted to other males violates 1 Cor. 7:7-9 where abstinence is a gift that not all men have.
The argument from complementarianism, 'God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve', is faulty because NO ONE in this day lives in the perfection of Eden before the fall.
Whatever a man is, with all his faults and defects as compared to Eden; if they were not his choice, it was how God made him, Rom. 9:20,21.
Who decided the exact birth defect that many of us have? If we did not choose it, God chose if for us in his wise purpose. I am color blind and I did not choose that and it does not match the perfection of Eden.
I do NOT support the LGBTQ activism and their agenda and I believe same-sex marriage is a perversion of marriage and placing orphans with gay couples is disgusting.
Yet I will not tell a Christian brother that he sins for the simple act of a sexual expression with a willing male friend in private.
Nor will I say any man is free from sin in his sex life whatever gender he is attracted to. I, in a previous post gave a sampling of commentary out of the past, on various texts used to condemn males who love males; and you find the comments fit what we call a "sodomite", not a "homosexual". I find the Roget's Thesaurus makes it clear a sodomite is different from a homosexual in our English language:
"75.16 sexual pervert; pervert, perve <nf>, deviant, deviate, sex pervert, sex fiend, sex criminal, sexual psychopath; sodomist, sodomite, sob <Brit nf>, bugger; pederast; paraphiliac; zoophiliac..." Seen within the category of synonyms, the meaning of the word "sodomite" in this day is more clear, and it is not "homosexual".
The experience of a long life, and studies in psychology and the research into such matters; causes me to be highly suspicious of the homophobic types, and whether they like the label or not, it does not take long to sense the hateful and nasty tone in some posts to realize the label 'homophobe' does fit!
Few males are 100% solely opposite sex attracted in all times and circumstances of their life and men of integrity know it in their heart, yet few of us risk making that statement. I'm 80 so I don't care. LOL