Experience is not what happens to you...
it's what you do with what happens to you! 😉
My Father taught me to watch others and learn from their mistakes.
One time I asked a gal out. She said, that she had to wash her hair. This was repeated for everyday of the week. So, I asked her if I could come home to wash her hair --- She said Yes. We became good friends.
One time there were very good looking ladies in the stands. From this distraction, all I could do was hit major league pop ups to the infield. I ran to first base anyways. Several were missed.