The passage in 1 Corinthians 14 about things being done decently and in order is about prophecy and tongues. Not about a persons physical actions.
This for the benefit of Sophie
1Co 14:1 Follow after charity and desire spiritual things, but rather that you may
prophesy.
1Co 14:2 For he who speaks in a
tongue does not speak to men but to God. For no one hears, but in spirit he speaks mysteries.
1Co 14:3 But he who
prophesies speaks to men for building up, and exhortation, and comfort.
1Co 14:4 The one speaking in a
tongue builds himself up, but he
prophesying builds up a church.
1Co 14:5 I wish all of you to speak in languages, but rather that you may
prophesy; for greater is he
prophesying than he speaking in
tongues, unless he interpret so that the church may receive building up.
1Co 14:6 But now, brothers, if I come to you speaking in
tongues, what will I profit you, except I speak to you either in revelation, or in knowledge, or in
prophecy, or in teaching?
1Co 14:7 Yet lifeless things giving a sound, whether flute or harp, if they do not give a distinction in the sound, how will it be known what is being piped or harped?
1Co 14:8 For also if a trumpet gives an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself for the battle?
1Co 14:9 So also you, if you do not give a clear word through the
language, how will it be known what is being said? For you will be speaking into the air.
1Co 14:10 So it may be many kinds of sounds are in the world, and not one is without a distinct sound.
1Co 14:11 Therefore if I do not know the power of the sound, I will be a foreigner to him speaking, and he speaking will be a foreigner to me.
1Co 14:12 Even so you, since you are zealots of spiritual things, seek to build up the church, in order that you may abound
1Co 14:13 So then he speaking in a
language, let him pray that he may interpret.
1Co 14:14 For if I pray in a
tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful.
1Co 14:15 What is it then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will also pray with the mind; I will sing with the spirit, and I will also sing with the mind.
1Co 14:16 Else, if you bless in the spirit, he occupying the place of the unlearned, how will he say the amen at your giving of thanks, since he does not know what you say?
1Co 14:17 For you truly give thanks well, but the other is not built up.
1Co 14:18 I thank my God that I speak more
languages than all of you;
1Co 14:19 yet in a church I desire to speak five words with my mind, so that I might also teach others, than ten thousand words in a
tongue.
1Co 14:20 Brothers, do not be children in your minds, but in malice be like infants, and in your minds be mature.
1Co 14:21 In the Law it is written, "By other
tongues and other lips I will speak to this people, and even so they will not hear Me, says the Lord."
1Co 14:22 So that
tongues are not a sign to those who believe, but to those who do not believe. But
prophesying is not to those who do not believe, but to those who believe.
1Co 14:23 Therefore if the whole church has come together, and all speak in
languages, and if uninstructed ones or unbelievers come in, will they not say that you rave?
1Co 14:24 But if all
prophesy, and some unbeliever or one not instructed comes, he is convicted by all, he is judged by all.
1Co 14:25 And so the secrets of his heart become revealed. And so, falling down on his face, he will worship God and report that God is truly among you.