I have always been close to God my entire life and the God I know does not plan to torment people who reject him for all eternity. I know what is taught and the scriptures that those who teach this use, can you tell me how a wonderful and loving God would torment forever. Putting something bad to sleep forever and out of its misery, like a dog with rabies, is merciful. Please explain without scripture (because I know the verses well) ...explain by your experience and relationship with God what he revealed to you about this. I don't understand, the God I know is not like this. I do believe there is a judgment and evil people who reject him will not have a good end, but not that way.
Ok so the first problem with your request for people not to use scripture is an anathema, we are commanded to use scripture to test theology, so before engaging in any journey for truth be as the Bereans, Acts 17:11 now that’s out of the way,
You say the God you know! Unfortunately unless you live within God and he indwells you, you don’t actually know him at all, yet you say your saved so then all you need do is lean upon the Holy Spirits understanding instead of your own, your foundational premise is flawed unless we’re Spirit led not Soul led, you are correct tho in your belief that God does not plan to torment people who reject him, his predisposition is that you choose him as a way to avoid the torment, when Jesus was talking to Nicodemus he quoted from the book of numbers, specifically the incident were Moses asked God to end the judgment that saw the Israelites drying from snakebites because of their ungratefulness, God went on to tell Moses that he would not remove the Judgment, but would instead offer them
A way out of it, so Moses constructed a bronze snake and lifted it up on a wooden pole, the Israelites who got bitten could then look upon the symbol and would be redeemed from their death sentence, Jesus when on to say that in the same way the snake was lifted up as a way to escape Gods judgment so would the Son of Man be lifted up, Jesus was illustrating that He was the symbol, the way for humanity to escape death, you should be able then to infer from this explanation that all of humanity is predestined to receive Gods judgment and wrath, our punishment therefore is just and definite, unless we choose to accept Jesus as our way out, it’s far more complicated than this but I’m trying to be concise if a little simplistic. You call God a wonderful and loving God and so he is, but God is not Love, God is Holy, Love is an expression of Gods Holiness but so is his hatred of Sin for Sin is in direct opposition to His Holiness. (not everyone is going to agree with me on that point lol but hey ho!) You also talk of mercy, a lot of people associate both Mercy and Grace as the same thing but there not, there very different,
Grace = Is Getting something we don’t deserve.
Mercy = Is not Getting what we do deserve.
So we are saved by Grace yet this doesn’t remove our need for Mercy “For no one is good not one” so yes judgment for all on the day of the Lord, but to truly answer your real question which is why would a loving God send someone to Hell, the answer is this “ God will not force anyone against there will to live with him for eternity” the problem is that there is only one alternative, so we should choose wisely and live accordingly to avoid future disappointment. 🙂