I don’t think it’s vanity to work out. Many enjoy it for their own personal fulfillment of
Gaining speed and strength and enjoy it as a past time verses watching tv. It’s also not wrong to want to create a better body to attract a certain type of mate. Wanting to look better to help open doors to more attractive people is not wrong. It’s normal and heathy.
When I was single and looking for a woman my typical process was this.
1. Find women I’m attracted to physically.
2. Get to know them and find women I’m attractive to physically who also shares common interests and we sync up well mentally.
3. Out of those women I find one that shares the same religious outlooks as me. They must be Christians.
4. Out of those find a woman who manages their own life well and are educated. I want a spouse who can help raise kids, not just pop them out.
So I looked for Christian , athletic science nerd women who was around may age (26-34) who enjoyed being in nature and had a college degree and career plan. In return I imagine they expected the same from me. They don’t want someone whose sloppy and at risk of a heart attack at 54 leaving them alone.
What we can’t do though is base everything in solely looks and neglect the mental and spiritual aspects of our life.
Gaining speed and strength and enjoy it as a past time verses watching tv. It’s also not wrong to want to create a better body to attract a certain type of mate. Wanting to look better to help open doors to more attractive people is not wrong. It’s normal and heathy.
When I was single and looking for a woman my typical process was this.
1. Find women I’m attracted to physically.
2. Get to know them and find women I’m attractive to physically who also shares common interests and we sync up well mentally.
3. Out of those women I find one that shares the same religious outlooks as me. They must be Christians.
4. Out of those find a woman who manages their own life well and are educated. I want a spouse who can help raise kids, not just pop them out.
So I looked for Christian , athletic science nerd women who was around may age (26-34) who enjoyed being in nature and had a college degree and career plan. In return I imagine they expected the same from me. They don’t want someone whose sloppy and at risk of a heart attack at 54 leaving them alone.
What we can’t do though is base everything in solely looks and neglect the mental and spiritual aspects of our life.
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