Also you better be talkative cuz I barely talk. I’m a homebody and I appreciate intellect. I think contraception and abortion are sins. Looking for a pretty white girl to make lots of British Indian babies with.”
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Tabin, thank you for asking this.
As soon as I read the part about not believing in birth control and "making lots of babies," I was immediately wondering about a way to support them, too. Now, please excuse me for a moment because I'm used to seeing women get slammed if they ask anything about a man's job or livelihood -- "She's only out for money!"
But if a guy says he's a homebody, doesn't believe in birth control, and wants to make lots of babies -- how, exactly, does he expect to pay for them? Does he expect the woman to support him and the kids while he stays at home? Maybe he works at home and has an awesome job? And I have known a few couples in which the wife worked and the husband stayed at home, which is great if it works for them.
But this is what drives me crazy about dating profiles, whether it's a man or a woman -- they're all unicorn dreams of "I want this, I want that," without any talk about what kinds of solid contributions they would make to the relationship, and no hint of responsibility as to how they plan to make all those wants come to pass.
The other question that burns in my mind when I see profiles that specify race or skin color is, "How white is white enough for you?" What about someone who has mixed racial heritage but is light skinned (I was thinking of the singer Halsey, whose father is black but she can easily pass as white,) a Caucasian woman with darker skin, or a woman of another race other than white who just happens to have light skin?
I understand that everyone has preferences, but having known some people who weren't actually of "white" heritage but could topically pass as white, I always wonder if someone writing a dating profile like this would reject them as soon as their true ancestry was shared.
