Saying that God grants men the choice to repent is fundamentally different from saying God decides whether or not men will repent.
If man chooses to respond to God, then repentance can be granted.
Many of scriptures call for people to turn or repent. Kinda illogical to ask or command if the audience has no power to do so.
This is trying to fit a certain presumptive theological belief.
Well you are discounting all the verses about predestination, and it is ALL God when we are saved, we do NOTHING, and do you know what it means when God says He is sovereign? I do not disagree with you at all by the way. God does tell us to CHOOSE this day who we will serve, and it is very clear when it says we should strive for righteousness, and all these things we understand in time/space. So please know I am not in disagreement that from our perspectives we absolutely do make choices and decisions, but on the other side of this scale we also have God telling us He knows us before we are born, He tells us the beginning from the end, no one can grab God by the arm and say "what have You done", nor look at Him and say "why have you made me this way", does the molder not have ALL rights over the clay, He has predestined us, He is sovereign, the Author of ALL life and everything in it, and not only can tell us what has happen and what will happen, but also why. He has created all of us not only glorified in His love, mercy, and salvation, but also in the righteousness of His perfect judgement on the wicked and evil.
So without a doubt we have to have choice and a will of our own, I don't think anyone reasonable, trying to truly have a real discussion on the matter can deny, but and the flip side I don't think anyone trying to be reasonable can deny that the bible also clearly states God is sovereign over EVERYTHING. As in most huge debates here I just don't think this is an either/or thing in any way. I see it as being somewhere in the middle with most things. To me this is one of the biggest unanswerable mysteries of God, how does He work His sovereignty within our wills? Just not something we can comprehend. Also I don't think the bible every teaches we have a "free will", like at all ever. We are born in sin, dead, there is no way at all we could ever save our selves, if you think about it outside direct revelation from God we could never know what was wrong, it's just outside what fallen man has the ability to know. So to be very clear, we are born with a dead spirit, a problem we could never even know let alone repair. God reached down and through Israel told us exactly how He was going to repair us, then stepped on this earth born whole, not of Adam with a dead spirit, but born of the Spirit exactly as we were created to live. See we are born slaves of sin. Jesus tells us we are going to live as slaves of on kind or another. Either in the broken state, slaves of sin, or born again of Spirit, as slaves of Christ. Our "wills" are never free, and we're clearly told that men have nothing at all ever to boast about concerning salvation, NO THING, not even a choice.
I know this is long like always, but I have to testify about the FACT that God grants us repentance EXACTLY the way brightfame52 was meaning, or at least how you think she meant anyway.
I did not choose Jesus, as a matter of fact when "I choose Jesus", when IU went up front and recited the salvation prayer, heck even went out and got baptised as well, when I "choose", I was not saved. It wasn't until life threw me a curveball and I lost the use of my dominate right arm in a motorcycle wreak that real life even started happening. See I had made the choice, I was a Christian, but in my current condition, after the initial thankfulness to be alive, as well as the pain medication button with nurses doing everything for you, after getting home and realizing how bad this really was, I felt Jesus wasn't doing anything at all to help me and my pain. I wasn't really "mad" at God, just didn't think He was real at all, or helpful.
A downward spiral of hope after hope smashed, they couldn't fix the arm, no settlement or any kind of compensation at all, car we were $600 from paying off was totaled and the replacement car we bought died the first week. I was at the end of my wits and when GRANTED me repentance, I didn't even know what was happening. I hit my knees in complete defeat, not calling out "Jesus" or "God I'm ready", nothing at all like that. God wasn't even a thought in my head when I hit my knees completely broken. I just cried "I can't do this anymore, I can't do this anymore, I can't do this anymore, world you win and I QUIT!!!!!
That was it, I got up, cleaned myself up, and went to bed. Lunch time the next day was when He Revealed to me that He was real and Jesus was His Son. At lunch the next day after feeling better, after 2 solid years of wanting to die and uncontrollable suicidal thoughts all day everyday, I realized they were gone and that was the second I knew whatever happen was God and that Jesus was His Son.
I could go for hours sharing every detail, but my main point is that the testimony God gave me leaves me with no other way to see it than He saved me, I didn't even make this choice being discussed here, and I know He did this on purpose too, like everything, but the view your sharing I believe is a bit TOO far the other way, that God plays no role other than making the way. Anyway I would love to hear your thoughts on these things, and if I got anything wrong about how you see it.