She had kids. That's what happened. They weren't my own and I got tired of their shenanigans. I need my own kids instead who I'd raise in the word.
When he was telling you that women use him like an ATM were you like...What SHOULD you say on a first date?
Why, the words every man wants to hear from a woman, of course: "I'll pay."
Now of course it's not like this with every guy, but I've been on a few dates where the man was complaining so much about women using men as ATM'S that when the check came, I just told the waiter to hand it to me.
I saw it as a no-win situation. I always offer to pay my own way as it is, but in this situation, it felt like no matter what I did, I'd still be seen as just another evil money-grubbing woman, so I would feel an obligation to pay the whole thing because I somehow had to prove that I wasn't like all these other women he was going on about.
But I also never went on a second date with the guy, either. As delightful as it sounds to spend another evening listening to someone complain about people I don't know and stereotypes I try to have nothing to do with, I'll have to pass.
Which of course, is probably why I'm still (sometimes happily) single.
Oh! What is that smell?!We’ve had this thread about what not to say on your first date, but let’s turn the tables and chew a little on what you actually should say on your first date with that butterfly filled tummy of yours.
The floor is yours, people, and I want to hear millions of poetic ways of whispering sweet little things into your dates ears.
Remember, flattery is mandatory.
smell your fingers. LOL...Oh! What is that smell?!
I think I'm going to puke!![]()
They're better than moths. LoLI hate butterflies..... and little yellow fuzzy ducks.
LoL the dreaded "F" wordBut, we can be friends, right?
That's code for "I'm not into you".LoL the dreaded "F" word![]()
Indeed it isThat's code for "I'm not into you".
Haha, very true. Both genders do it. I asked a guy on a date (yes, go meee) back in high school.That's code for "I'm not into you".