Some of God's children get confused with the function of BEING BORN AGAIN, and being CONVERTED. When we are born again, it comes to most as unnoticed. Jesus explained it to Nicodemus in John 3:8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whether it goeth, so is every one that is born of the Spirit.
As for myself, I do not remember when I was born of the Spirit, but my conversion was like the 4th of July"s explosion of fireworks. When the Holy Spirit opened up my knowledge of the scriptures as to what Christ had actually done for me, and imputing his righteousness unto me. I was so excited, I just about drove everyone around me crazy, trying to tell them how simple it was to understand, knowing, full well. that if the Holy Spirit within them does not reveal the knowledge to them, my words would fall on deaf ears.
To my understanding of the scriptures, conversion always follows being born again. of the Spirit.
I believe that Paul was already born again when he was persecuting christians, in all good conscience, before his conversion took place, on the road to Damascus. Paul had already had his stony heart replaced with a fleshy heart that Jesus said that he was kicking against HIS PRICKS.
The stony heart cannot be PRICKED, instead the Jews with the stony heart were CUT TO THE HEART, and stoned Steven to death.