this is an example
John 11:11 He said these things, and after that, he said to them, "Our friend, Lazarus, has fallen asleep, but I am going so that I may awake him out of sleep." 12 The disciples therefore said, "Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will recover." 13 Now Jesus had spoken of his death, but they thought that he spoke of taking rest in sleep. 14 So Jesus said to them plainly then, "Lazarus is dead."
this is an example
1 Peter 4:1 Forasmuch then as Christ suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same mind; for he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin; 2 that you no longer should live the rest of your time in the flesh for the lusts of men, but for the will of God. 3 For we have spent enough of our past time doing the desire of the Gentiles, and having walked in lewdness, lusts, drunken binges, orgies, carousings, and abominable idolatries. 4 They think it is strange that you don't run with them into the same excess of riot, blaspheming: 5 who will give account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead. 6 For to this end the Good News was preached even to the dead, that they might be judged indeed as men in the flesh, but live as to God in the spirit.
It mean God is the leader of all living, has power to all living.
then, and I mean this as gently as possible,
I believe you have misunderstood the passage.
Matthew 22:31 But concerning the resurrection of the dead, haven't you read that which was spoken to you by God, saying, 32 'I am the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob?' God is not the God of the dead, but of the living." 33 When the multitudes heard it, they were astonished at his teaching.
"God is not the God of the dead, but of the living."
possibly a parallel passage will shed more light
Luke 20:37 But that the dead are raised, even Moses showed at the bush, when he called the Lord 'The God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.' 38 Now he is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for all are alive to him." 39 Some of the scribes answered, "Teacher, you speak well."
spiritual dead. When Adam eat the forbidden fruit, he was dead, but physicallypraying with is ok live for some years.
I believe you were referring to the people in Hades.
it's an example of people who are not physically alive and are conscious, able to hear the gospel.
No, I don't
I am not remember, but I don't know in the Bible a story about the living ask to pray with physically dead
I don't think there is one.
earlier, we talked about other issues of spiritual importance:
celebrating Christmas and having Christmas trees.
I believe we agreed that there is no clear biblical passage against those things,
so they are okay.
to me, then, and again I want to say this gently,
it's only fair to apply the same reasoning to asking people in heaven to pray with you.