I am not throwing Paul's letters out of the bible, I use them often
but they are not laws, they are to help us if we need help, so many
treat them as laws and that is totally wrong.
Paul's words are either Correct or they are Not Correct.. One either accepts them as having Authority and being scriptures from God or they don't.. You cannot use the letters of Paul to support one thing but reject other things Paul wrote.. That's using the Bible as a smorgasbord picking and choosing what you personally want to acknowledge and what offends your personal opinions..